At present, the price of make-up lessons in the market is so high that ordinary families simply can't afford it, and they want their children to have a good future in their studies. This question represents the doubts of many parents and students.

First of all, I want to show my attitude:

In fact, for the vast majority of lessons, all primary and secondary schools do not need to make up lessons. Especially in primary schools, there is no need to make up lessons. In junior high school and senior high school, there is no need to make up classes in grade one or two. This requires students to have a certain sense of self-discipline and self-consciousness, as well as parents to know a little about education and establish family education rules.

Specifically: there is absolutely no need to make up lessons in primary school culture classes. On the one hand, the content of primary school curriculum is very simple and easy. Only by completing the on-campus courses can children complete their studies well. However, the qualities that primary school students need to complete include: independent study habits, neat completion of homework and exercises, learning to practice calligraphy, and learning to consult the required materials. Will find and solve problems independently. After grade three, you can try to practice writing; If parents don't have this ability, they can let their children learn calligraphy and writing. You can also teach yourself by buying books.

In middle school, there is no need to make up classes in grades one and two. Now the reform direction of the senior high school entrance examination has changed the function of the school from education to educating people. Therefore, it is by no means that students can get good grades by learning culture well. Therefore, students need to learn to think independently, read a lot and set up a trilogy of review, practice and preview. The increased physical and chemical courses need students to establish interest, and interest will drive activities. This requires students to have their own time to deal with it. Therefore, you can try not to make up classes without making up classes. As long as you don't miss any subjects and your grades aren't chaotic, you can ask the make-up teacher to sort out the knowledge structure of grade three and check for missing items.

High school stage: High school students are under great academic pressure and need more time for students to digest knowledge. Need to practice more and brush more questions. There is even less time to make up lessons. In senior one and senior two, parents can help students buy titles of various subjects. Let the students set up the knowledge structure by brushing the questions. In the third year of high school, you can find a make-up teacher to sort out the knowledge points and check for leaks.

What students need to do is to make clear the purpose of their study, establish their own goals and dreams, and strive to achieve them. Break the ultimate goal into several small goals and break them one by one. Finally realize your ideal.

Parents need cooperation. Parents need to know some education and how to communicate with their children. These exchanges include expectations for children, as well as respect and understanding for children. Especially after children enter junior high school, parents should learn to communicate with their children in a normal way. That is, how to communicate with other people at ordinary times and how to communicate with children at this time.

Ask yourself a few more questions:

Can you talk to children equally! Can parents apologize to their children for excessive behavior? Can you look at the problem from the perspective of children!

Usually pay attention to the way of communication with children. Don't wait until no matter what parents say, children won't listen or even do it in the opposite direction, and then worry about how to communicate. That's very difficult.

In short: making up lessons is a way of learning that wastes people and money, but it may not be effective. In fact, parents who understand education and can follow the laws of education do not have to let their children make up lessons. Parents who have no money have no need to let their children make up lessons. As long as children can have dreams, parents of children without dreams can help them build dreams, and parents know more about the laws of education, then children's academic performance can still be excellent.

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In fact, the good grades of most outstanding students are not made up by making up lessons. Most parents have a misunderstanding. It seems that only by attending more cram schools can children achieve excellent results. In recent years, big data shows that all the top candidates in the college entrance examination have never attended any cram schools outside their interests.

So how do these college entrance examination champions achieve excellent academic performance? The answer is simple, that is, to effectively improve learning efficiency.

Academic achievement = learning efficiency, learning time.

In primary school, the academic burden is relatively light, so in many cases, we can effectively improve children's academic performance by increasing study time. However, with entering middle school, the subjects studied have greatly increased, and the learning difficulty has also greatly increased. At this time, students spend most of their time studying. At this time, it will become more and more difficult for you to improve your academic performance by increasing your study time. So another key variable, learning efficiency, will be the decisive factor.

After many students enter middle school, their grades will change greatly, and some of them have changed from top students in primary school to underachievers in middle school, all because of their learning efficiency. For a simple example, the learning efficiency of student A is twice that of student B. If student B wants to achieve the same academic results as student A, it will take him twice as long to achieve his goal. This is almost impossible in middle school, and it is impossible to achieve high time utilization. In terms of learning efficiency, the efficiency difference between excellent students and students with poor grades is far more than twice.

To effectively improve children's learning efficiency, we must pay attention to three most important core points, one is learning habits, the other is subject thinking, and the third is learning management. These three points are exactly what parents need to cultivate and guide in family education.

Therefore, the child's academic performance, in fact, her fate is really in the hands of parents, not teachers and schools.

How to cultivate these core points, parents can also pay attention to official website, Learning Ability Education Center, or observe the articles and related answers of learning ability education in today's headlines.

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If you don't have the money to make up lessons and want to get good grades, you need parents to pay more attention. Are you ready?

First, at the beginning of children's schooling, parents intend to exercise their children's autonomous learning habits.

For example, let children develop the habit of preview and review from the beginning; The habit of writing correctly; Reading habits; Wait a minute.

I don't know how old my child is now and what grade he is in. If he is a child between grade four and grade seven, I recommend a set of books, a series of terrible and scientific mathematics, which is very helpful for children to learn mathematics and has a strong interest in mathematics.

In this way, for children in primary and secondary schools, solving math problems can be regarded as solving a big problem.

Second, make full use of mobile phones, computers and other network tools.

Now is the Internet age. Besides playing games online, mobile phones and computers can also be used for learning.

For English, you can find a lot by downloading an APP about learning on your mobile phone and searching online. And reading aloud with the text can solve the problem of teaching children English pronunciation. Accordingly, buy some exercise books to do exercises, and English will not be a problem.

For physics and chemistry, you can buy some experimental videos online, some of which may be free, some of which charge little, and some of which can be bought at a low price when doing activities. For example, I bought a set of videos of physics experiments online, which cost only a dozen dollars, including all the physics experiments in Grade Two. The teacher told me very vividly and interestingly. I once lamented that if the child's physics teacher is so interesting in the future, physics should not be worried!

Now the network is so developed that many things can be found online. It's just that children are still young, and online classes need the supervision of parents, so parents need to pay more attention.

Third, spend more time with children to enhance their self-confidence.

With more company, you can find out the advantages and disadvantages of your child as early as possible, and encourage him to recognize himself and give full play to his advantages. If a child thinks he is an excellent student from the beginning, he will subconsciously demand himself to be an excellent student. This kind of psychological suggestion will make him cheer for himself, which is what he has been advocating to make Excellence a habit.

In this way, I have my parents' love at home and my own confidence in my heart! The child's grades will be very good! what do you reckon ?

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Let me tell you a true story first. Among the students I take, one is named Zhang Pengfei. The student was admitted to Tsinghua, but he didn't attend any remedial classes. In other words, even if you don't make up lessons and spend tuition, your grades can still be quite good.

Let me briefly talk about this student. I once asked Zhang Pengfei, "Why don't you make up lessons?" ? The child told me: "As long as we seize the time in class and carefully and repeatedly prepare the materials given to students by the school, time is enough. Just do the questions in the book. If you do it three times repeatedly, it is not a problem to enter a book. "

I am a physics teacher in Zhang Pengfei. The child is very attentive in class and finishes his homework on time every time. Most students don't like doing experimental problems, but he has done each one three times. The topics in other books and reference materials are very serious, and the development of various subjects is also very balanced. He is really devoted to his studies, and the children are also very distressed by adults. He has never blushed in front of his parents and teachers. Come on, you know!

One last word for you. Since our family has no money to make up lessons, our children have to fight for this tone! Of course, I believe that children can fight for this tone for their parents!

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I want my children to get good grades, but I don't want to spend money to make up lessons. So, is there really no way to help parents solve this problem?

Companionship, self-discipline, diligence and efficiency, and give children an excellent future in a relaxed environment!

accompany

Parental companionship is very important for children's growth! It is very important for children to develop good study habits! Therefore, if you can't afford the money your child has to pay for making up lessons, then choose to accompany him and give him an environment to show his ability. When you show your ability to your child, as a small audience, let your child's performance and display be understood and understood! Some parents say that it is too difficult for children to give questions, and I won't! Note that the companionship mentioned here is only silent support and silent companionship! If you can't explain the problem, don't explain it. Just ask the teacher when the child goes to school!

Our company is to give children a sense of security and a stable environment, so that children feel that learning is a happy thing, something worthy of mastery and a sense of accomplishment!

self-discipline

Learning is actually a very tiring thing! Meeting an interesting teacher is something that children should be proud and grateful for all their lives. However, not all children will have such good luck! So what should we do? Teach children self-discipline! Let children understand that learning is their own business and entrusted to the future! Let children learn self-discipline. Ask the teacher directly if you have any questions, and ask questions if you can't! How awesome a makeup teacher is, he himself is not as clear as his teacher.

Self-discipline, don't let the problem stay overnight!

Frequently ask

If you can't, be sure to let your child ask in time and ask quickly! Teachers like children who love to ask questions. Teachers like children, and children will like, love and trust teachers. The improvement of children's grades is just around the corner!

You don't ask, the teacher only gives you a few percent; You ask, the teacher is your exclusive private study consultant!

High efficiency (rate)

Keep up with the teacher's rhythm and make efficient use of class time. What the teacher said in class is definitely a classic topic. Learn classics, understand classics, make efficient use of each class, review in time at night and summarize in time at weekends. Your grades will not improve!

The above points are simple to say, but not easy to do! Take your time!

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The problem is easy to solve, it depends on whether you can do it.

First kind

Since ancient times, there has always been a genius for reading.

When I was studying, there was a student in the same grade who studied hard and had a high IQ. When I was a sophomore, I took the college entrance examination and went straight to Peking University! For various reasons, this classmate is only taken care of by his mother, who has no fixed job and relies on odd jobs and relatives to help him go to college. I heard that after the university, I was admitted to the doctor with excellent results (since I was admitted to Peking University, government bonuses and scholarships from various schools have continued).

The second type

It is true that there have always been geniuses, but after all, they are a few people. Most people are from China.

I brought a student with an average IQ and a poor family (really poor, even embarrassed, relying on grandma to collect garbage for a living). However, students should study hard and can't catch up with his studies. He should run to the office by himself and ask the teacher sincerely. After class, I also play and play, but I never waste time studying in class. Although the results are not top-notch, but also admitted to a class of undergraduate.

The third kind

My last student, both parents died, and my younger brother lived on the retirement salary of his grandparents. His IQ is relatively low (he often asks me questions in his life, which can be found from the questions he asks).

But the student studies hard, but his ability is limited and the effect is not good. Fortunately, this student respects his teacher very much, whether he is his own teacher or not, as long as he sees it, he says hello wherever he sees it. After the head teacher learned about his study, he discussed it with the head teacher. Several teachers spontaneously took time out to make up several lessons for him in the office by asking questions. Since then, my academic performance has improved. Although it was not up to the excellent level, it was finally admitted to a five-year medical undergraduate program in a provincial capital city.

To sum up, I have no money to make up lessons, and I hope to get a good grade in the exam. I have IQ and concentrate on learning IQ, but I don't respect the IQ of the teacher's EQ. You don't study well, you don't know how to respect your teacher, and you are always waiting for the pie to fall from the sky, so that the teacher can make up lessons for you automatically and free of charge. Then dream your own big dream in the Spring and Autumn Period!

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But now education must make up lessons to improve grades, go to a good university and receive a good education.

If you have no money to make up lessons, find someone to educate you. Tuition is very expensive now, hundreds of dollars an hour. For example, the senior children in our company pay 800 yuan for an English class. Scared the baby, we really don't make it up.

In fact, our parents really work hard for their children. Have the cheek to ask for help. Find a way from the family itself. One of the parents in the family has received higher education, at least admitted to the university, and has a certain understanding of learning. For the sake of children, I also forced myself to pick up textbooks and take the old road of campus study. Children are both subjects with advantages and subjects with disadvantages. Parents should review their subjects with disadvantages, and taking their children to study one or two courses can still improve their grades. It turned out that this happened when I was at school. The teacher asked me why my grades have dropped so much recently. It's not that children can't keep up, but that parents can't keep up.

Then, if you are desperate for your children, no one will dislike your shame. If your relatives, friends and colleagues have just graduated from college and are not too busy at work, you can send gifts and ask for help three or four days a month. The results of special counseling will improve soon. Children themselves should have the spirit and strength to work hard.

Brothers and sisters can bring one from school, and two people can form a study group, or they can study hard and make progress together with people with poor learning. Low cost and high efficiency.

Then online education. Now the cost of online education platform is much cheaper than that of private education. Many past courses are basically free materials. You can find online education. This requires children to be self-disciplined. After all, there is no communication. Just a conversation and an acceptance.

The difficulty is temporary, as long as you want to solve it, I wish your children to improve their grades, study in the ideal place and improve their skills.

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Suppose the topic is written by parents. If the topic is students, you can just turn to the end and have a look.

gene

Geniuses are born. They often leave others behind with a little effort, so they should "have good children".

However, this estimate is too late. You can consider paying attention when giving birth to a second child.

Family education and environment

"In Meng Mu, I chose my neighbors, but I broke the loom without learning."

In front of more than two thousand people, Meng Shengren's mother told us with practical actions:

1, the importance of school districts;

2. The importance of family education.

The first one may not work for the subject, so the second one will do!

I won't talk about this experience and suggestions here, because this topic is too big, but there are many shares on the Internet, and the topic owner can search for it himself.

I just want to say that improving the environment of family education must be very beneficial to children. Focus-the most important thing is to stimulate the inner motivation of children's independent learning!

resign oneself to one's fate

If the subject's children are older, such as high school students, then this problem is very embarrassing, and often the opinions of parents are not important at this time. Even for many families, parents' opinions are not important after their children enter junior high school.

At this time, to say something unpleasant, parents' greatest support for their children may really be material support.

Although many people on the Internet will say that they care more about their children spiritually, I personally think that not all parents can do it. On the contrary, parents' nagging and children's impatience are more common.

So at this time, my opinion is that if you really can't change anything, then talk to your children like adults and have a heart-to-heart talk!

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If you want your children to study hard, you don't have to make up classes to improve their grades. From elementary school to high school, for twelve years, if a child's good academic performance depends on making up lessons, then even if he is admitted to the university, he is just muddling along, because learning to learn depends on the repeated training of teachers to master knowledge. When he goes to college, who will teach such new knowledge? What knowledge can a person who has lost his thinking ability learn?

If you want to improve your children's academic performance, you must first let them learn to cherish time, because a time waster can't have the energy to study at all. Next, we should at least ensure that students get excellent grades in three major subjects during the study of three classes, because children's main energy is also in the study of three major subjects. If you don't learn your major well, you won't have time and energy to study politics, history and geography, and you won't have good basic skills to study physical chemistry in the future.

If you want to improve your child's academic performance, you must make a study plan and review it step by step every day. This is what a child with perseverance and perseverance can do.

If your children have the above advantages and master the correct learning methods, then their grades will definitely stand out among their classmates.

If you want to learn Chinese well in primary schools, you should read more, watch more and copy more. If you want to learn mathematics well, you must preview the conceptual formula of memory in advance, do more exercises after class and consolidate the knowledge points of memory. There is no shortcut to learning English well. Read and memorize the text words every day. Junior high school and senior high school must master the answering skills of all subjects, so as to achieve good results in the study exam. Usually study more, think more about logistics, read more books and read good books, and your academic performance will naturally remain stable, so you don't need to make up extra lessons.

In today's society, some parents are self-motivated, high-quality, earn more money, and their children get relatively good grades, so there is no need to make up lessons. On the contrary, just like students studying in rural teaching points, their parents are people who live on subsistence allowances and are not self-motivated. How can they have high-quality students? It's really hard to have a baby in a cold door, and no one can deny it.

Those poor people who have no money should educate their children early and teach them the good habit of listening attentively in class and reviewing carefully after class. As long as children study hard and understand what the teacher says in class, there is no need to make up lessons, and the future is bright. I have never heard that good students make up for it by making up lessons.