Hello! I'm glad to sit with you today. First of all, on behalf of all teachers and students, I would like to extend a warm welcome to you and express my heartfelt thanks for your trust and support in our work as always. It is the children who let us know each other. Today's acquaintance is for our children, and our goals are the same. We will prepare the following three items for today's parent-teacher meeting:
1. The school leaders introduced the development status and the latest educational trends of our school.
2. Report the class situation to parents, and the teacher will report the situation of each subject.
Let's discuss children's education together.
Content:
First, the class situation analysis:
There are 49 students in our class, including 23 boys and 26 girls. I like them very much. Many children have their own characteristics and strong personalities. Children's learning, life and other aspects are constantly improving. You should know something about teachers' teaching and getting along with children!
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Our children have formed a cohesive class group in a relaxed and happy environment after nearly half a year. Children like their classes and teachers more and more, so I want to thank them here.
Thank you for your efforts and supervision. Thank you for your support of our work. While the children's grades have improved, their abilities in other aspects have also been greatly improved. I am their monitor.
I am very proud of being appointed.
My goal is to let children have a very good memory before they graduate from primary school.
Second, explore the issue of educating children
1, don't ignore children's ideological education.
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How children behave is actually an ideological education for children. Now many parents only pay attention to their children's academic performance. As soon as the child entered the door, he asked, "Did you take the exam? How many points did you get? " The first sentence when I saw the teacher was: "This.
Why don't children study with you for a while? Not studying at home at all. But few parents, not even parents, ask, "Are children active in class these days? Fighting with classmates? Play with classmates? "
What parents lack is ideological education for their children. I have nothing to hide. I lie, steal money, and get credit. I should pay attention to the things in the class, but my parents don't. The teacher alone has little effect. I appeal: less change for children.
Money. With money, children are prone to accidents. Did the children eat the breakfast money given in the morning? Go home at night for free. Some parents said: I can't bear to watch other children buy food. Their children have no food, and their children have no food.
If you eat, you can buy it at home, and buy dozens or hundreds of dollars at home. Don't give money ... competition is everywhere in today's society, and it may be more intense in the future. If we want our children to become strong in society.
To do well, we should pay attention to the all-round development of children.
2. Cultivate children's love
Love your children, which is known to all; But if you give for your children without asking for anything in return,
It is possible to train children into people who only know how to take and don't know how to give.
Our living standard is relatively high now, but we are still worried about the pain and frustration of our children. No matter what happens at home, no matter how unhappy adults are, they always act as if nothing happened in front of their children.
Yes, life seems to be without wind and rain, and it is always smooth sailing. In fact, it is wrong for parents to do so. Although children are unable to solve some problems for their parents, they should learn to bear the joys and sorrows of their parents.
Music helps children know and understand life, which will help them learn to cherish the present life and care for others.
3. Let children rely on themselves
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As a parent, do you think children are too dependent on adults? Don't fold the quilt in the morning, don't brush the bowl after dinner, even forget to bring some study tools, and blame the adults for not reminding me, and so on. This phenomenon is very common in many families.
This is commonplace. Therefore, in the survey, it was found that only 45.9% of the only children thought they were "responsible" and only 40.5% thought they were "independent of others".
3%。 In other words, more than half of the only children are more dependent.
Where does the child's sense of dependence come from? Generally speaking, it is related to parents' doting. The more parents arrange, the more children have.
The stronger the dependence. On the contrary, if parents encourage their children to do their own things, their dependence will be greatly reduced.
There was an only daughter in the fourth grade of primary school who used to sleep late. Every morning, her mother urges her to get up several times, and she always says reluctantly, "Stay a little longer." If she is really late, she will complain that her parents didn't drag her up.
She was criticized by the teacher. Father felt that it could not go on like this. He told his daughter, "Going to school is your own business. When should you get up and set your alarm clock from tomorrow morning? If the alarm clock rings and you are still lazy, then you are lazy.
Well, I'm sure no one asked you. You have to take all the responsibility yourself! "Father knows very well that children are spoiled by their parents and still care about their image in front of teachers and classmates. How dare he always be late? Sure enough, the next morning, when the alarm clock rang,
Daughter jumped out of bed. Since then, five or six years have passed, and there is no need to urge my daughter to get up for school in the morning. Sometimes, my parents are still sleeping and my daughter has gone to school by bike.
4. Cultivate children's good habits
There is a saying in the field of western education: "Thought guides behavior, behavior becomes habit, habit shapes character, and character determines fate", so it is no exaggeration to say that "good habits play a decisive role in a person's growth and even his life's happiness". Good habits will benefit children for life, and bad habits will harm children for life unconsciously!
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Doing homework is the responsibility of children, and parents must urge their children to finish their homework carefully. When guiding children to finish their homework, they must form good habits, such as the habit of reading carefully, checking carefully and writing carefully. Every time you finish your homework, you should get into the habit of reading it from beginning to end to see how the handwriting is. As for right and wrong, let's criticize it. After the homework is finished, the children are allowed to do other things.
Do the housework
This one is more important than others, because it is the weakness of every child. Nowadays, many children have poor working ability, rely heavily on their parents in life, and lack self-service and self-management ability.
The reason is not that children don't want to do it. In fact, every child has a desire to participate in family work. Most parents don't let their children do it, fearing that their children will be tired and afraid that they will not be able to do it. They think their central task is learning, while others are.
Secondary. In fact, it is to cultivate skills in labor and form character in labor. We should be willing to make them suffer and do something to improve their ability. The students who study hard in the class make the greatest progress.
Work on time
Children must have enough sleep time,
One is not to delay the child's physical growth, and the other is to ensure that the child has enough energy the next day to prevent the child from arriving at school in advance. Some parents say that I have too many things to do, so I have no time to ask about my children's study and care about them.
Children's education. If you are too busy to take care of your children, let them develop freely. When parents say they don't have time to take care of or accompany their children, have they ever thought: What are we trying to do? It's for me.
Do you live a rich life? Most people think it's for the children's future. If we sacrifice the present for the future, do you think it is worth it? This is the first step for children to become adults. If the child doesn't live up to expectations, you earn.
No matter how much money he spends, he can also squander it; Even if the family is a little difficult now, children can feel the joys and sorrows of their parents and will try to create their own wealth when they grow up. Therefore, I hope parents can spare more time.
Spend more time with children, care about children, and less unnecessary social activities. No amount of money can buy children's healthy mentality, good quality and noble morality, and no amount of money can buy children's future. This is obvious.
Yes Money is to be earned, but children should take care of it.
While educating children, you should always remember that you are their teacher, so that children can learn the power of example from their parents.
Quantity. I have seen such an advertisement. A young mother brought a pot of hot water for her elderly mother-in-law and said affectionately, "Mom, please soak your feet to relieve fatigue and keep healthy." The young mother turned around and found herself young.
The son also struggled to bring a pot of steaming water and confidently said, Mom, you also soak! Here is a line "Parents are the best teachers for children".
This advertisement tells us a truth about parents: you have to be what you want your children to be in the future.
Finally, I want to say: children are our eternal hope, and educating children is our common responsibility. Let's join hands and work together for the healthy growth of children!