At the age of three, many children were driven to kindergarten by their parents, realizing their own liberation and finally being able to live alone with their husbands. But the new stage will also bring new troubles. Kindergartens often have some headaches, such as teachers borrowing money from parents.

The kindergarten teacher borrowed money from her parents, but my mother refused, without hurting her feelings.

Mingming's mother was very uneasy after sending her children to kindergarten. She is worried that her children will be bullied by other students at school. Therefore, she deliberately added the teacher's WeChat and asked for help if she had nothing to do, hoping to close the relationship with the teacher.

But Mingming's mother didn't expect her active approach to bring a big trouble, and the teacher suddenly borrowed 8000 yuan from her. Even relatives and friends will think twice about borrowing money, let alone being a teacher. Moreover, the teacher only said that he was in a hurry, but didn't say why.

My mother suddenly remembered a news she had seen. A teacher borrowed millions of yuan from the parents of the class and lost all of it, which made him feel desperate and chose to commit suicide. One of the parents had no money, but chose to lend money to the teacher.

This incident made Mingming's mother make a decision that money can't be lent to the teacher. She came up with a method that not only hurt the harmony with the teacher, but also gave the teacher face. Take the initiative to start complaining to the teacher that it is too difficult for you.

Mingming's mother told the teacher that the old man at home was ill and had just gone to 200 thousand. And they just bought a house with hundreds of thousands of loans on their backs. Now there are only a few thousand dollars in a family account, so miserable that teachers are embarrassed to speak.

Why is it so difficult for teachers to ask parents to borrow money?

Teachers are close to children.

Just like Mingming's mother, when a child enters the campus, the teacher is the only one who can protect him. Naturally, I want to get closer to the teacher and hope that my children can be treated specially by the teacher. Therefore, parents are in a dilemma in the face of teachers' borrowing money. They are worried that if they don't lend it to the teacher, it will affect their children's position in the teacher's mind and make them feel bad at school.

I'm worried that the teacher is really in trouble.

Seeing that others have difficulties in life, no matter who they are, they will move some compassion. Therefore, when the teacher borrows money, the parents will feel sad together and sigh that the teacher is really not easy. But I'm worried that after borrowing the money, I'll use it for nothing and never come back. So I am very distressed and worried, and I really don't know what to do.

How should parents treat teachers who borrow money?

1. Know the specific situation.

When others borrow money from us, we have the right to know what happened to them, so as to judge whether we should borrow the money. The teacher borrowed money from us, so parents might as well ask carefully to see what difficulties the teacher encountered. If there are conditions, you can confirm the teacher's statement and analyze the specific situation.

2. Euphemistic refusal.

In fact, teachers can borrow money from relatives and friends, and there is no need to choose their parents. Therefore, we can take some euphemistic ways to refuse, cry about our difficulties like the mother above, and tell some of our own experiences, so that the teacher can retreat. This method is recommended, because it will not hurt the harmony with the teacher, but also save face for the teacher.

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It is natural for children to go to school to receive the education of teachers, and teachers have the obligation to pay patiently for every child. So parents don't need to feel bound by their children, they can only flatter their teachers in every way. When encountering some unreasonable phenomena, parents should learn to bravely refuse. If we really want to help each other, we should also be within our ability. We must not choose to lend money to the teacher like this parent whose life is in trouble.

Have you ever been asked to borrow money from your teacher? How to deal with it?