How to carry out family education according to the characteristics of children in single-parent families is an important topic before us, and the following educational strategies should be adopted:
First, create a happy family atmosphere for children.
Research shows that children can really feel the family atmosphere from the age of 2, and different family atmosphere will make children have different reactions in thought, attitude and general behavior. If children feel happy and safe at home, their psychology and personality can be well developed; If the family is noisy all day and the children are often in a fearful environment, it is easy to have bad mood and behavior problems. In kindergartens, we often find that children from single-parent families often show negative psychological and behavioral tendencies such as introversion, fear, sadness, anxiety, indifference or aggression. They often cry and make a fuss about trivial matters, and it is difficult to stop. These unhealthy psychological and behavioral tendencies, if not guided correctly in time, will lead to deviations, ranging from timidity, loneliness, stubbornness and unsociable, to jealousy, hatred of others or indifference to everything. Therefore, single-parent families should pay special attention to creating a happy family atmosphere for their children, which is conducive to the formation of children's good character and healthy psychological development.
Children are innocent, and we have no reason to make them unhappy. This requires parents of single-parent families to learn to control their bad emotions, so that their children can grow up healthily whether in the bright sunshine or in the wind and rain.
Second, create a good cultural atmosphere for children.
Parents are mirrors for children to shape themselves. As the father or mother of a single-parent family, we should pay great attention to the great influence that we may have on children's behavior, psychological state and personality characteristics, always pay attention to our words and deeds, and don't show bad habits such as lying, gaffes and irresponsibility in front of children. Don't treat children according to your own emotions, otherwise, the bad influence of bad habits will often lead a good child astray.
We should cultivate children's hobbies according to their characteristics. Often take children to concerts, watch calligraphy and painting exhibitions, play interesting games with children, etc., to create a good cultural atmosphere for children, so that children can get rid of the pain of losing their father's love or mother's love as soon as possible, and gradually develop a cheerful and confident character.
Third, let children learn to take on family responsibilities.
Don't spoil a child because he has lost his father's love or maternal love. Let him feel at ease and boldly do what he can, let him know about various family situations, and invite older children to participate in the decision-making of major family matters when necessary. Encourage children to do what they can, so as to cultivate their independent ability. Let children know from an early age that they also have certain responsibilities to the family, so that they can consciously shoulder their responsibilities to the family and society when they grow up.
Fourth, create an interpersonal environment for children.
In view of the characteristics of children in single-parent families who are easy to be introverted and withdrawn, it is a good correction method to let children contact the society more and create more opportunities for children to communicate with each other.
Fifth, let the non-caregivers visit the children more or both parents take turns to raise the children, which is conducive to the growth of the children.
In the process of children's growth, both paternal love and maternal love are essential, and single-parent families should strive to satisfy their children's desire for these two kinds of love. It is very beneficial for children's growth to let non-caregivers visit their children more or both parents take turns to raise their children.
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