I won't let my child go to kindergarten at the age of 3, and the reason is very reasonable!
Mr. Wang's youngest son is three and a half years old. It is reasonable to send him to school, but Mr. Wang thinks that kindergarten is not a nine-year compulsory education, and we can judge it according to the actual situation of the children.
Teacher Wang also said that many kindergartens are basically stylized now. With the wave of early education, more and more kindergartens teach children elementary school knowledge, which is not good for children.
Secondly, the interpersonal model of kindergarten is not suitable for children's inner development. I would rather teach at home than send my children to kindergarten to suffer! Teacher Wang's remarks caused a lot of controversy on the Internet!
1 and 3-year-olds have poor resistance.
I believe parents have the impression that children often get sick when they just go to kindergarten, especially when a child gets sick in class, which may infect the whole class. The root cause is that children are young and have poor resistance and immunity.
Kindergarten belongs to the environment of group life, and 3-year-old children are more likely to get sick after attending kindergarten. If they are always sick, it will have a great influence on their growth and physical development. Secondly, telling teachers to give their children medicine every day will add a lot of pressure to the class teacher, so parents should not send their children to kindergarten so early.
2, 3-year-old children have poor self-care ability.
Three-year-old children have poor self-care ability, and some even pee their pants. If you want to send such a child to kindergarten, not only will the child suffer greatly, but it will also add a lot of trouble to the teachers invisibly. After all, there are only two or three teachers in a class, and the energy is limited, so it is impossible to take care of every child.
3, 3-year-old children's intellectual development is immature.
According to research, the primary school students' weariness rate in China is higher than that in western countries. The main reason is early school and immature mental development, because 3-year-old children are in a sensitive period of relying on their parents. If parents can't do a good job of separating anxiety, children will have emotions such as fear, anxiety and stress after entering the park, which will lead to weariness of learning.
When the children are older and more mature, it will be easier for parents to discuss with their children about going to kindergarten, especially for young boys, who can enter the park one year later because of their late mental development.
In fact, think about it, although the child went to kindergarten at the age of three or four, it was almost normal. However, if family conditions allow, children do not go to kindergarten, it does not mean that children are worse than other children, and they do not learn as much as other children.
In today's society, it is almost normal for children to go to kindergarten at the age of 3.
However, if your family conditions permit, your child will not go to kindergarten, which does not mean that your child will be worse than his peers and may learn more.
For example, the sons of Du Jiang and Huo Siyan, uh-huh, didn't send them to kindergarten at the age of 4.
At first everyone was curious. Why not send the children to kindergarten?
In fact, we can see from the variety show that, uh-huh, even if he didn't go to kindergarten, he was still excellent.
For example, I know how to share with others, help my mother pour water, speak logically and have a high emotional intelligence.
Therefore, even if children don't go to kindergarten, it means that they will fall behind, and we can still cultivate excellent children at home.
Ye Shengtao, a famous educator, said: "The essence of education is to cultivate good habits."
Besides IQ, it is more important to develop good habits from childhood.
According to the survey of children's education, children aged 3-6 are in the golden age of character development, because their brains develop very fast during this period. If parents can guide their children correctly, they will benefit for life.
After a child is born, it is like a blank sheet of paper. What it will be like in the future depends entirely on how parents guide it.
In the process of children's growth, there are bound to be various problems. If parents neglect to guide, it may lead to personality defects of children. The most common ones are violence, rebellion, loneliness, talking back and so on.
Faced with these problems, parents may be confused and don't know how to educate their children. In this regard, we might as well try to read with picture books.