A professor at Oxford University conducted a follow-up study on 1200 children, and found that children who were put in nurseries from childhood were more aggressive in adolescence. Two other studies also found the same result, that is, the longer you stay in the nursery, the more likely you are to have "anti-social behavior" and "violent behavior". Kindergarten in the morning will seriously affect children's brain development, emotional development, social behavior and cognitive ability training. In addition, their physical development is also very slow, their nerves are atrophied and their brains are abnormal. These are all related to the lack of one-on-one family care. Therefore, experts suggest that children should be allowed to grow up in a warm and safe family environment, rather than sending them to kindergarten too early.

Children under two and a half years old should receive one-on-one care from their mothers, and it is the most ideal way for parents to raise them together. If you want your child's brain to develop healthily, you need to stimulate it with love. The interaction between parents and children is the best stimulus, and the care of family and friends is the safest choice for children's development. What kindergartens lack is this kind of influence. Even if a nanny is invited to look after the children at home, it is not as good as the mother's personal care. Besides, most people are not lucky enough to find the ideal nanny. Children not only need fixed personnel to raise, but also need special care. One-on-one parenting can better meet the baby's needs. Kindergarten teachers usually take care of several children by themselves, so she can't meet the needs of these children at the same time: drinking milk, urinating, playing games, nursing and so on. Don't think that babies are not sensible. When their demands are not answered and satisfied, they will feel lonely, manifested as irritability and crying. Long-term influence is not conducive to their psychological development, forcing some children to develop aggressive personality, which is the result of lack of emotion.

In addition, it is best to have a transition period before children enter the park. For example, you can accompany your child to some parent-child classes to get used to it and see the performance of your child. Then the time to accompany your child to participate in parent-child games will gradually decrease, and gradually transition to let your child learn games in groups alone. Never ignore 372 1, even if children don't want to go to kindergarten, force them to adapt, or even think that it will be fine after a long time. This will only increase children's sense of insecurity and anxiety in kindergarten, and the negative impact can be imagined over time.