1, the child refuses to eat, because he is not hungry, or not hungry enough to eat. In this case, you can tell grandma that if the child doesn't eat, he will be hungry. If there is nothing to eat next time, the child will take the initiative to eat well when eating. Adults often do something else when eating, and once or twice they are told not to eat. This is not a big problem.

2. Lying and cheating. Children's world is a world of imagination and impulse, and they are also learning to imitate words from adults and social media. Adults should first distinguish between children's imagination and self-verbal satisfaction of impulsive desires, and then distinguish between self-motivation and verbal deception. At the same time, adults should also reflect on themselves. How many lies and cheats have you told your children? For example, in order to get away, you said what I bought you, and you never came back, and you didn't buy anything when you came back.

3, aggressive behavior, love to beat people. Children around one and a half years old are learning to defend themselves and expand their control, which shows that children are bold and pioneering when they grow up. Parents give reasonable guidance, and after three years old, they will naturally get along with others in a way that is more in line with social norms

4 excessive anxiety. For example, if you buy clothes in a shopping mall, don't let him wear new clothes to try on clothes, and no one else can touch them. He didn't want to go to early education, and he didn't want to take off his shoes. He kept crying. This kind of emotion is learned, which shows that children lack trust and security in the external personnel environment and need parents to reflect on their performance at home. For example, is it self-centered and looks like a family? In fact, the daughter-in-law and the mother-in-law are two hearts, and the family atmosphere is not harmonious enough.