Should children take care of themselves or their mother-in-law? Why? I think it is better for husband and wife to bring their own if conditions permit. Grandchildren are separated by generations, that is to say, there seems to be a certain degree of guest affection, and there is a son and daughter-in-law in the middle, which has certain doubts. When dealing with problems, we should make all kinds of considerations. There is a generation difference, and the decision may not be in place. There must be some bad ingredients mixed in. Once parents interfere, children will rely on their grandparents to disobey their parents. If it takes a long time, the relationship between parents and children will be alienated. Practice has proved that very few people have developed into hostile relationships. Of course, children who are older and more sensible will be eliminated. If you really can't take care of your children, let your grandparents take care of them, keep in touch with your children and give them certain rights. You must take good care of them. You'd better bring your own. If you are busy at work, you can ask your in-laws to come and help you, but you must bring your own after work, so that you can observe the growth of your children and let them fully enjoy the love of their parents.

You know, the care your parents give you can't be replaced by grandparents. You will know him better and care more about him if you bring up your own children. If you have the ability, I suggest that the young couple take care of the children themselves. On the one hand, grandparents are old after all, and many concepts are still different from those of young people today. The children brought by grandparents will be more or less close to grandparents in temper and personality. After all, children have lived with themselves for a long time, and it is inevitable that they will be out of character without kissing themselves when they grow up. My cousins were brought up by grandparents since childhood, and now it is a rebellious period. When uncles and aunts used to discipline them, they only said. On the other hand, when children arrive at kindergarten, they should pay close attention to their study. Grandparents can't help them at all, and they can't keep up with their first-grade studies. If they don't lay a good foundation, they will lose their interest and motivation in learning. The child's childhood is only a few years. Children can be handed over to grandparents before they are 4 years old, and the economic pressure will not be too great. After the age of 4, it is recommended to take it yourself.