Having made this clear, the next thing to do is to seek common ground while reserving differences.
1, don't care about some small details. Although parenting is no small matter, some small problems can be solved through communication. For example, when potatoes first started to be complementary food, my husband felt that it was unnecessary to buy rice noodles. He thinks that drinking rice soup is good for children. To this end, we also had a big fight. In retrospect, this can actually be avoided. Take a compromise: give the children rice noodles today and drink rice soup tomorrow. After all, it is nutritious food.
2. Listen to children's opinions and pay attention to their reactions. Parents' concept of parenting, after all, is from the perspective of parents, which does not mean that children also have such a desire. When the potato is one year old, I plan to give the potato an early education class, in order to let the potato have more contact with the children and be less lonely. My husband doesn't think it's necessary, as long as the children eat happily at home. None of us can convince anyone. Later, I decided to take potatoes to several early education center experience classes to see the children's reaction. In the experience class, the potato was very happy, and some of the teacher's ideas also brought us an impact. Finally, I decided to give potatoes an early education class. Looking at it now, this decision is correct. Potatoes especially like early education classes, and will urge me then.
3. Listen to the opinions of third parties. The so-called authorities are confused, and bystanders are clear. Sometimes when it comes to parenting, the more people you care about, the easier it is to get into chaos. When appropriate, we should listen to the opinions of professionals. Potatoes get decayed when they are one and a half years old. I advocate filling their teeth. My husband is very worried about the child, afraid that the child will cry when filling the teeth, and resolutely opposes filling the teeth. Later, I asked a friend who is a dentist. My friend said that it is ok to wait until the child is 2 years old. Otherwise, if the delay is too long, the dental caries will become more and more serious and the consequences will be more serious. Finally, we filled the dental caries when the potato was 2 years old.
Finally, the most important point is that the quarrel between husband and wife because of the difference of ideas must not be shown in front of the children. Never quarrel in front of the children.
No matter how different the concept of parenting is between husband and wife, the starting point and purpose are for the good of children and for their better growth. Couples need to communicate more, communicate more and learn more about scientific parenting, so as to avoid detours on the road of parenting.
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