There was a man whose wife died in childbirth. Fortunately, his family has a smart and capable dog, which naturally shoulders the heavy responsibility of taking care of the baby. One day, a man went on a business trip and came back very late. Knowing that his master had returned, the dog came out to meet him happily. But when the man saw that the dog's mouth was full of blood, an ominous premonition suddenly welled up in his mind, wondering if the dog ate the child because of the attack of hungry animals. So he rushed to the bed to see. All I see is a pile of blood. In a rage, the man picked up a stick and killed the dog alive. But just then, the child crawled out from under the bed crying. The man realized that he had misjudged the dog. He looked around and found a wolf lying not far away, killed alive. Look at that dog, its hind leg is badly scratched. It turned out that when the man went out, a wolf slipped in and tried to steal the child.
Sean, a famous minister in the early Han Dynasty, met something when he went out to study. One day, he met an old man sitting there in coarse clothes on Xiapi Bridge. When he saw Sean coming, he deliberately left his shoes under the bridge and said to Sean, "Boy, go down and pick them up for me!" Sean was shocked and wanted to get angry. Seeing that he was an old man, he tried to pick up his shoes under the bridge. The old man said, "Put it on for me." Sean thought that since he picked up the shoes, he knelt down and put them on the old man. The old man put them on and left with a smile. After a while, he came back and said to Sean, "You can teach me."
When the old man visited Zhang Liang, he just wanted to see if he had self-restraint and self-control. With this kind of cultivation, "where there is a will, there is a way", and in the future, you can take on a big responsibility, deal with complex interpersonal relationships and arduous things, be calm when things go wrong, know the joys and sorrows, and not be impulsive. We should pay attention to this kind of cultivation, restraint and patience, and handle the people and things we meet at ordinary times well.
The younger brother of Mr. Lou Deyi, the prime minister of the Tang Dynasty, is going to take office in Daizhou Governor's Office. Before leaving, Mr. Lou Deyi said to his younger brother, "I don't have much talent. I am now the prime minister." Now that you are a state official, you get more, which will cause others' jealousy. What should I do? "His brother replied," If someone spits in my face in the future, I won't say anything, just wipe it myself. " Teacher Lou said, "That's what I'm worried about. The man spat at you because he was angry, and you wiped it off. This is an outlet to resist the man's anger. If he doesn't wipe himself, he will. You might as well accept it with a smile. "
Brother Lou's words are a metaphor, not a joke, which means to be patient, to make concessions, and not to "point the needle at the wheat" with each other. Otherwise, it will further irritate each other, intensify contradictions and bring more serious consequences.
A story happened in France:
Alain Martti is a policeman in Tabu, a small town in southwest France. One night, he came to the front of a tobacco shop in the city center in casual clothes. He is going to buy a pack of cigarettes in the shop. At this time, a tramp named Eric asked him for cigarettes outside the shop. Marty said he was going to buy cigarettes. Eric thought Marty would give him one after buying cigarettes.
After Marti came out, the homeless man who drank a lot of wine pestered him for cigarettes. Marti refused, so they had a fight. With the escalation of mutual abuse and ridicule, their emotions gradually became excited. Marti took out her police ID and handcuffs and said, "If you don't behave yourself, I'll give you some color to see see." Eric retorted, "You bastard policeman, what can you do to me?" Stimulated by words, the two scuffled. The people next to them quickly separated them and advised them not to be so angry about a cigarette.
After being persuaded to open, the tramp went to a nearby path and swore. As he walked, he shouted, "smelly policeman, come and arrest me if you have the ability!" " Maddie, angry, pulled out her gun, rushed over and shot Eric four times. Eric fell in a pool of blood. ...
The court sentenced Marty to 30 years in prison for intentional homicide.
One man died and one man went to prison. The cause is a cigarette, and the culprit is uncontrollable excitement.