They know that there are people with low academic qualifications who can talk to each other, but they are also a minority. They don't want to spend time doing such screening. They might as well give up this pile of sand instead of panning for gold in the sand.
As their education goes up, they feel that the gold content of this pile of sand is also increasing, so that they can have a higher overview of sand and be faster.
What is important to find a partner? In fact, everyone has ideas in their hearts. But when we get along with another person, we get along with this person's personality.
I actually discussed this issue with my boyfriend about whether education is important in love.
I admire his fluent English, but he always looks down on me as a countryman. Actually, I'm not angry at all, because I know he just wants to mess with me.
He said: in fact, if there is a gap between two people in academic qualifications or similar aspects, it is really possible that they can't talk properly. Like what I say, you don't even understand what it is. How can I communicate with you?
I said, don't you see that we often do this? But you patiently explained the concept to me, and then we had a good chat.
He said helplessly, that's because a high-level person like me deliberately lowered his level in order to communicate with people like you.
I smiled at that time: I see, this is a kind of love.
But in similar situations, some people will arbitrarily feel that they can't go on and don't want to explain. Too many times, I don't think it's appropriate.
Nowadays, many people match their own conditions with those of others. From education to living habits. Not at all, not at all.
To put it bluntly, you still want ready-made, as if the mainstream has been telling you that one day you will meet the perfect match and not make any changes. So, at first, you don't want to wronged yourself, lower your level and see other people's world.
I think this question is more like what the subject really wants to ask: will a woman find a boyfriend with a lower education than herself?
Because if the other person had a higher education than you, you wouldn't ask this question.