It's sad to secretly love others. Many people want each other to know, but they want others not to know. This state of being cautious and trembling every day is the mentality of many people.

I don't want him (her) to know, because I really feel inferior. I had a crush on a senior who was older than me in high school. It's really been a long time. Even though he finished the college entrance examination and I was a senior in high school, I still miss him. From beginning to end, I didn't really want him to know. Because I clearly know that we are not on the same side, I really feel inferior. This is a society that takes a comprehensive view of face and other values. He is so excellent that you can see it at a glance in the crowd, but I am really small, and I am an ordinary person in the eyes of most people. Not outstanding at all, at least in high school. I also hope to be noticed by him, and I can do some small moves to be noticed by him. Our junior high school is an English cram school. We should know each other, but he never greets a nobody like me. I always go to the floor where he studies after class to meet him on purpose and take the opportunity to see him.

I don't think I like him until now. I knew that nothing would come of us, so I had to be careful not to let him know. Let him know that I will feel particularly uncomfortable. It feels like the whole world knows that I like him, but I don't deserve him, and others are laughing at me. Because of inferiority, I dare not approach.

It is estimated that this is something that most adolescent girls will encounter.

Of course, in addition to their own factors, there may be many other insurmountable obstacles such as reality.

Before the first year of high school, my math teacher was a particularly handsome middle-aged man, and his lectures were particularly wonderful, although he and his lover had no children. Because the math teacher is really kind and charming, the lectures are lively, and the self-study class is patient, laughing every day, and most importantly! Handsome! We all like and admire him very much, but this is just a normal emotion. There is a chubby girl in the class who especially likes him as boyfriend and girlfriend. She was very happy when the math teacher came, and then she kept hogging the teacher and asking him all kinds of questions that she couldn't. She really looked for opportunities to get close to the teacher on purpose. But in the end, our whole class knew, but the math teacher still didn't know.

Maybe this girl knows very well that it is impossible to know. The math teacher and his wife are very loving, and our high school is really young, with too much age difference. If you really know, it will also have a bad influence on teachers and be easily pressured by the surrounding public opinion. Besides age and social morality, there are too many insurmountable gaps between them. Let him know that it is also a burden for the girl.

Although liking someone sometimes doesn't want him or her to know, I hope we all have the ability to let each other know.