Parents often can't control their temper when they accompany their children to do their homework. In particular, when you see a child doing something wrong or showing distraction, you can't help but criticize. And this kind of chicken blood performance is actually not conducive to the growth of children, and it is easy to bring great psychological harm to children.

Ms. Wang's daughter is 4 years old this year. She has started to learn some knowledge in kindergarten, and it takes her about half an hour to finish her homework every day. However, in practice. Half an hour is not enough. Obviously, it is a very simple phonetic description. His daughter has to muddle along. After writing it once, she felt dissatisfied, so she erased it with an eraser and rewritten it, or went to the toilet after writing two lines. Looking at her daughter's performance, Ms. Wang felt that her daughter was particularly disappointing. Why can't she study as hard as other children? Therefore, every time I accompany my children to do homework, I make a fuss at home, and my children are often scolded and cried by my mother.

Presumably, every parent has experienced a similar situation, and there will always be some unpleasant things when doing homework with their baby, especially the following three situations are the most common.

First, dislike the child's slow response.

Many parents will dislike their children being too stupid when they accompany them to do their homework. In fact, this is because of parents' cognitive problems. In the eyes of parents, addition and subtraction are very easy, but they ignore that children will not have the same keen thinking as adults. A seemingly simple topic is actually very difficult for children. Therefore, this attitude of abandoning children is stupid, and it is easy for children to feel sad and even become inferior.

Second, there are too many criticisms.

Some parents always criticize their children for being distracted when doing homework with them. They always seem unable to sit still. Look at this and that. In fact, this situation is also normal. After all, children are in infancy. On the one hand, their curiosity is strong, on the other hand, their concentration is very limited. If parents always criticize their children, it will lead to children's rebellious mentality and even intentional distraction.

Third, I can't help but correct it.

Children often make some mistakes when they write their homework, for example, their handwriting is not neat enough, or they make wrong answers when calculating math problems. Some parents cannot accept their children's mistakes. When they see their children's mistakes, they can't help but correct them. In fact, this corrective behavior is also interrupting your child, which is easy to bring psychological pressure to your child.

Parents should be clear about the purpose of education when they accompany their children to do their homework.

Develop study habits.

Parents should be clear about the purpose of education when they accompany their children to do their homework. For children in early childhood, they are not required to master much knowledge skillfully. The main purpose is to cultivate children's study habits, so that children are interested in learning and willing to take the initiative to enter the learning state. If children's study habits can be well established, they can also improve their efficiency when learning other content in the future.

Parents can also use this time to help their children improve their attention while doing homework with them. If children can concentrate, they will do their homework faster and more efficiently. Homework in early childhood is relatively simple. If children can be helped to establish good concentration at this stage, with the complexity of future courses, children will certainly do well and achieve better results.

Early childhood is a critical period for children to lay the foundation of their abilities, and so is learning. Parents should help their children build confidence in learning, and don't let them have fear of learning. You must pay attention to your attitude when communicating with children. If we always scold and yell at our children, it is easy to cause their inferiority complex. Children feel that learning is too difficult and have no interest in learning, so they can't do well in the exam.