Most of the children admitted to Tsinghua Peking University or Key 985 are due to their good study habits, correct study methods and great efforts. Basically, by junior high school, their advantages in learning have emerged.
It is not only the children's efforts, but also the parents' efforts to get into a good university. I summed it up and focused on three aspects:
It is very important to develop good study habits in the lower grades of primary school.
Take my children for example. From the first grade of primary school, I asked him to do his homework first thing when he came home from school. After finishing his homework, he can go out and play with the children. When I came home from work, he had basically finished his school homework. After dinner, I took out the exercise book I bought from the bookstore, which is one level more difficult than the knowledge of the school. It is stipulated that each subject should do a corresponding number of exercises every day.
When my child is in the second grade, I will take him to the training institution outside to take courses in Olympiad and foreign languages, and I will also sit at the back of the classroom and take notes. In this way, when he goes home to do his homework at night, he will encounter problems that he can't solve, and we can still discuss them.
In the senior grade of primary school, if there is an opportunity, we can create conditions for children to train their thinking ability.
In the third grade, I took him to the math class of the middle school attached to the National People's Congress (extracurricular remedial class for the whole city) and the advanced class of the middle school attached to the First Normal University. As a result, both classes were admitted, and I discussed with him: learning one is enough. The child said: since I have been admitted, I am not afraid of hardships and want to go.
Since then, we haven't had a rest on Saturday and Sunday in the High School Attached to the National People's Congress and the High School Attached to the First Normal University. It is these two classes that make children have a strong interest in mathematics. As a teacher, I know very well that learning Olympic Mathematics is not only to improve math scores, but to let children learn divergent thinking. It will be helpful to study physical chemistry in junior high school and senior high school.
Always give priority to children's needs and help them overcome obstacles in their studies.
When the child reaches junior high school, he is seriously biased. He can get the first place in mathematics and the last place in Chinese. Before the senior high school entrance examination, Chinese scores were particularly fierce. The Chinese score is 120. He has been hovering above 90 points, but it's only 100. He is anxious, and I am even more anxious. I asked a friend to find a famous Chinese teacher, and I only tutored him five times. My child's Chinese in the senior high school entrance examination rose by more than ten points. Later, I learned which teacher's child is the top liberal arts scholar in Beijing.
After my children went to high school, I couldn't help them with their studies. I took good care of my life. I prepared meals carefully every day, mixed meat and vegetables and had a reasonable diet. For senior high school students, it is not only to fight for intelligence, but more importantly to fight for physical strength. I am very glad that under my careful care, my child went smoothly in the third year of high school and was admitted to 985 University as he wished. After graduating from college, I was admitted to a foreign school and started my postgraduate life.
We are all ordinary people, and our children are ordinary people, with almost the same IQ. If we pay attention to the cultivation of children from an early age, children will show their academic advantages in middle school and help them get into an ideal university.