In today's 2 1, the family behavior paradigm of "the man is the master and the woman is the master" is still the choice of most families in China. For those men who work hard to earn money outside and neglect their children's family education, I want to shout loudly: please give your children the necessary care for their children's future and family happiness! Educating children is the responsibility of both husband and wife, and no one can replace the role of father. Through years of practical observation, it is not difficult to find such a phenomenon: the success rate of raising children only by mothers is lower than that of raising children only by fathers. When parents teach together, children have the greatest chance of success. At present, the problem is that most children in China families rely on their mothers' instruction, which may be one of the reasons why many children in ordinary families can't achieve great success. As a father, you should understand your responsibilities.

Now, from kindergarten to primary school, from junior high school to senior high school, female teachers account for the vast majority, which is very unfavorable for the growth of boys. No wonder, now some kindergartens are recruiting male "uncles" as teachers, which is very popular with parents. Nowadays, almost all children in urban families are "lonely Xin Wei". The result of the one-child policy has caused many disadvantages: children are delicate, lazy, unable to bear hardships and unwilling to be offended. Those boys, in particular, lack the strength, vitality, wildness and masculinity they deserve. At this time, if there is a strong-willed and strong-willed father to guide, it will effectively make up for these defects. Therefore, advise those careless dads: for the future of your precious son, please drink less wine, play less cards and watch less TV; Get rid of your excuses and bravely shoulder the responsibility of educating your children. Teach children to be brave, strong, persistent and struggling; And the necessary motor skills. 3. A wife should be good at communicating with her husband.

In order to give full play to the role of fathers in educating children, wives also have responsibilities. Don't monopolize the power of family education, but learn how to skillfully attract your husband to participate in family education, such as discussing the joys and sorrows of family education with your husband to attract his attention. 4, the wife should learn to "show weakness."

Women have the natural advantages of doing housework and educating children, but they often have fatal weaknesses. For example: accommodating children is more than enough, but not strict enough; Think small and haggle over every ounce. Once the child becomes a runaway horse, the mother is often at a loss. Now, I tell my young mother a little prescription: Take the initiative to "show weakness" in family education and give her husband the family education problems that she can't solve, so as to show his importance in family education and improve her husband's interest in family education. 5. The whole society should establish the concept that male parents are proud of participating in family education and ashamed of neglecting family education.

Learn from my father's advanced family education experience. For example: Sun Yunxiao (director of China Children's Research Center, an expert in children's education, who successfully educated her daughter to be admitted to Fudan University); Wang Jinzhan (a math teacher attached to the National People's Congress, who successfully educated her daughter to be admitted to Peking University); Zhang (the author of Harvard Girl, who sent her daughter to Harvard University as a stepfather); Hong Zhou (the founder of "Appreciation Education", who trained the deaf-mute daughter Zhou Tingting); Hao Maishou, a professor at Tianjin Academy of Social Sciences, forced children to stand on their own feet by signing a "father-son agreement".