1. As a parent, I think it is very important to urge and encourage children to study. After urging and encouraging, we should cultivate children's awareness of learning, let them know that learning is their own business, not for parents and teachers, and let them know the importance of "I want to learn" rather than "I want to learn". Only by taking the initiative to learn, children will finish their daily learning tasks seriously and in time. Seriously supervise and urge every day, and strictly require homework. If we make mistakes, we will correct them ourselves and let the children know that everyone can make progress through their own efforts!

Second, give more encouragement to children. I often tell my children that as long as you try your best, you will be fine. Everyone has a different starting point and can't expect too much from their children. As long as your child works hard, even if he doesn't do well in the exam, he should be encouraged and don't put too much pressure on him. Now the child is in the growth stage. As parents, we should also understand our children, use less tone of command and more tone of discussion, give them some space to manage themselves, create a good learning environment for them, and let them go into battle lightly.

1. Create a good family study environment for children and have a relatively independent and quiet study place. Treat children with a normal heart, make friends with them, make them feel close to each other, eliminate the pressure, be willing to tell you something, and be willing to complain to you if you have difficulties.

2. Take the method of giving priority to encouragement, supplemented by criticism. Spend more time with your children and communicate more. Praise more, encourage more, criticize less and blame less. Everyone is lazy. It is natural for children to play, and so are we adults. After a hard day's work, you also want to have a rest, play cards and chat with friends ... Therefore, we should encourage children to review their lessons before playing. Check homework irregularly, check homework randomly, and let the child know that we are always paying attention to him. Parents have to make sacrifices at some point. Read and watch TV with your children, so that they can feel your care and love. I believe that "what you lose will be gained", you will find that your child's heart is close to you, your child will become sensible, and you will find that what you pay is worth it. In the past, children didn't like to communicate with me and didn't take the initiative to say anything. He didn't know when he asked, and he didn't care. He asked a lot, he slowly observed and learned to think. He always tells me what is happening at school now.

3. Cultivate a sound personality, encourage children to participate in group activities, and enhance the sense of collective honor. For example, I suggest parents encourage their children to participate in various activities organized by the school, so that children can have a strong team spirit. Because only in activities can children feel the collective strength and their real happiness.

Third, parents should keep a low profile, treat their children with a peaceful attitude and the concept of equality, and be their friends. Being friends with children can provide children with a relaxed and happy living and learning environment; Being a child's friend, the child will be willing to talk to you, and you will be willing to talk to you if you have difficulties, so that you can grasp the child's psychology and learning dynamics in time, find problems in time, and correct them in time; Make friends with children, see the world through children's eyes, accompany children to read and watch TV, guide children to see more, speak more and think more, and improve their language ability and appreciation level. Because language is the coat of thinking, the enhancement of language ability can greatly improve children's learning ability and promote the development of thinking.

Fourth, lead by example. When children grow up, their cognitive level is low and their imitation level is high. When we reason with them, especially the truth, they won't understand, but everything we say and do will affect them imperceptibly like a mirror, whether it is good or bad, the consequences are immeasurable. Therefore, as parents, we should set an example, always play an exemplary role, educate our children with our own behaviors, and enhance their ability to distinguish right from wrong.

Fifth, give priority to encouragement, supplemented by criticism. As the saying goes, it is better to praise your son than to praise him. Patience, encouragement and praise can inspire people's self-confidence, which is the characteristic of every successful person. Children's psychological endurance is very poor, and a praise or criticism from adults is often an evaluation of their whole world. So I think as far as children's daily behavior is concerned, they should be praised in time for doing well, and at the same time, they should point out their own shortcomings and put forward higher requirements. In this way, she will keep in mind her own advantages, gradually correct her own shortcomings and make progress in an orderly manner.

Sixth, help children establish a correct outlook on life and values. Life is like a one-way voyage, and the attitude towards life is like the direction of the voyage. With the right direction, you can take fewer detours and move forward quickly. Only by establishing a correct and positive outlook on life can we achieve higher goals and achieve greater value in life.

Seven, cultivate children's sense of social responsibility, compassion and good self-quality. In today's material-rich, materialistic era, having good moral quality can enhance people's taste and character. A person with social responsibility and compassion often has a good relationship, and a good relationship can make children develop better in today's society. Cultivating children's good moral character of "kindness, honesty, diligence, courage and humility" from an early age will benefit children for life.

Communication between parents and teachers is indispensable. Ask the teacher about the latest situation of children at school, and also tell the teacher about the children's performance at home in time, so as to achieve the purpose of teaching together.