Exercise 1: Modify the score.
The mid-term exam results came out, and some students in primary school student Lu Xiaojun's class didn't do well in the exam, so they didn't dare to tell their parents, so they altered their scores in the student handbook. At ordinary times, Xiaojun's academic performance is above average in his class. I only got 76 points in this English exam because I didn't adapt to the new questions. My good classmate suggested that it is easy to change the word "7" into the word "9" and let Xiaojun change his English grades. Xiaojun is very contradictory. Originally speaking, he didn't want to change his grades, but he didn't change his grades and couldn't face his strict parents. ...
Analysis: It is a mistake of self-deception to modify the grades in the student handbook without permission. Failure to do well in the exam is an academic deficiency, which can be made up by hard work. Changing grades is a moral issue. In the long run, not only will you not get high grades, but you will also form dishonest bad morals. Moreover, when parents check the test paper, they will definitely find the act of alteration. It is suggested that Xiaojun tell his parents the exam results truthfully and explain clearly the reasons for his failure in the exam. I believe parents can understand and forgive themselves.
Even if there are no special circumstances, just because you don't work hard or make careless mistakes, don't cheat your parents. Instead, we should sincerely review ourselves, study with the help of our parents, be brave after learning shame, and catch up quickly, so that we can do well in the next exam.
Practice 2: hide your parents.
Dong Liu's grades have been poor, so Dong Liu didn't tell his parents about the mid-term exam. After getting the results, the class teacher held a parent-teacher meeting. Dong Liu is going to ask for leave from the teacher, saying that his parents are too busy. He went home to hide the information of the PTA from his parents, so that the teacher and parents could not meet, and the parents didn't know that he had failed the exam again. "The main reason is that the test is too bad, and I can't tell my parents that I can drag on for a day."
Analysis: When many students fail in the exam, it is difficult to talk to their parents. There are three reasons: first, I am afraid that my parents will say; Second, I am afraid that my parents will be disappointed; Third, because they are not satisfied with themselves. In fact, who doesn't want to do well in the exam? However, getting good grades in the exam is a wish, but failing to get good grades is a realistic result. Since the result is not good, we have to face it. In front of your parents, you might as well give it a try. When they are in a good mood, take the initiative to take out the test paper and tell them your actual situation. You can't hide. If your grades are not good, you might as well tell your parents face to face, and they will be even more angry when they know. Therefore, it is better to tell the truth before it is too late.
Exercise 3: Ask someone to sign.
Xin Wei was passable in other subjects in this exam, but his math score was unexpected, so that he failed. It happened that the math teacher was very serious and asked to take the paper home for parents to sign and write comments. Xin Wei secretly found her cousin in high school and asked him to write down the words "unsatisfactory grades, need to work harder" on paper, then signed her mother's name and handed it to the teacher.
Analysis: If the teacher asks the parents to sign, Xin Wei should ask them to sign, because as a student, she should not only complete the tasks assigned by the teacher, but also let the parents know their actual situation. The key is how to face the fact of poor grades.
Instead of anxiously looking for someone to sign, it is better to calm down and think carefully: what shall I do tomorrow? Redouble your efforts to catch up. First, find the reason. If the learning method is not good, then correct the learning method, if the learning attitude is not good, then correct the learning attitude. Second, ask more questions and practice more. If you don't know what not to do, ask in time. Don't pile up questions, it's too late to make up. Third, ask your parents for help. Usually, you should communicate with your parents more, and don't wait until something goes wrong to find your parents. Fourth, form a good habit of being willing to read, diligent in writing and good at thinking.
Related links: Parents should be kind to their children's grades.
Recently, when the principals of several excellent middle schools in Shijiazhuang went to Beijing to introduce their experiences, some principals pointed out that academic performance is a phased embodiment of children's own comprehensive quality, which cannot be achieved by parents' needs and children's subjective wishes alone. Therefore, parents can't judge the success or failure of their children by their scores. They should combine academic performance with conduct comments and comprehensively analyze children's quality development. Even if your child doesn't do well in the exam, you should do more cause analysis and less criticism.
◆ Find out the reason why you didn't do well in the exam, is it that you didn't learn the basic knowledge well or didn't have enough basic training? Is it discomfort or stage fright? Only by finding out the reason can we prescribe the right medicine.
Parents should give care and comfort to children who are upset and bored because they didn't do well in the exam, and then help them find out the reasons.
◆ Parents should take the initiative to help their children sum up their experiences and lessons, and also find reasons from themselves and work out specific efforts.
◆ Parents should treat scores correctly. Pay attention, but don't be superstitious. Have a comprehensive evaluation of children's achievements, and don't be influenced by superficial scores.
What should parents do if their children fail the exam? At the present stage in China, examinations are more important. But now the exam is not unique, because there is not only one way to go, and you don't have to take Tsinghua Peking University to be successful in your study.
Other schools are also good. Mainly depends on the ability behind. A white cat and a black cat catching mice are good cats.
There are always opportunities. Reading is not the only way out.
The child was very sad when he failed in the exam. How should parents comfort her? So don't give up your efforts, your efforts will always pay off! Freedom and justice in the world, hehe!
As for failure, the ranking has dropped. You can think that I gave the ranking to others and did a good thing!
I will be better than him next time! The teacher won't be disappointed in you. First of all, don't let yourself down! Got it!
The exam is not for coping, but for testing your academic performance and improving yourself better! So don't be afraid of the exam, okay? Just play your true level! I believe you can do it! ! !
Come on!
I failed in the exam and my parents attached great importance to it. What should I do? Everyone will fail in the exam sometimes ~ and I think no matter what others say, it depends on their own adjustment. Because after all, this kind of thing didn't happen to others at that time, and all comfort or encouragement was from the perspective of a bystander. Only when you realize it, will you understand that everything at that time was nothing to you. What is needed most is time. You should calm down. If you can, try to analyze the reasons for your failure. I think self-encouragement may be a better way. Try to tell yourself "I will get better". Then try to look forward to the next exam and prove yourself. Remember, don't care too much, let alone affect your study life. Keep an optimistic and positive attitude. And you should also have a plan to plan how to study. If your parents blame you, you don't have to be sad, as long as you are sad.
The premise is that this is not a senior high school entrance examination or a college entrance examination. I'm sorry to give you the answer so late.
How should parents correctly comfort their children after they fail in the exam, such as "studying hard for ten years in a cold window", "there is no end to learning", "hanging your head and tying your legs" and "as long as you work hard, the iron pestle is ground into a needle". All these show that learning is a hard job and something you have to pay with sweat, tears and blood. I remember going to school as a child. As long as it is the day before the exam, my parents will cook well. No matter how hard the conditions are, they will try to cook two eggs to make up for it and get a good grade. From school teachers to parents of children, they regard exams as a major event and repeatedly tell children and students that exams are very important. Only by doing well in the exam can you get into a good school, only a good university can you find a good job, and only by finding a good job can you live like an individual. The people who instill these important beliefs in children are the closest and most trusted people to children, so what they say is deeply rooted in children's hearts. After years of examinations and tests, this belief has been deeply rooted. Examination is a way to test whether the knowledge you have learned is solid and whether you have learned it directly. However, people have given it too many meanings, and each meaning is so important that it cannot be ignored. The misinterpreted values of "dividing, dividing and dividing students' life roots", "Only by entering a university can we change our destiny" and "Only by studying hard can we become talents" permeate every student bit by bit. Eventually form a goal in the child's mind. Only by studying hard and being admitted to the university can we be perfect, successful and worthy of our parents. On the other hand, if you can't go to college, it will prove that this person is useless and has no ambition. It is a shame for the family and you are ashamed to see the elders in Jiangdong. This traditional and outdated concept makes many children unable to face the reality, and once they fail, they will give up on themselves. Every year, the college entrance examination is a happy family and a sad family. Before the exam, the whole family mobilized and went into battle together to escort the children, but the children couldn't sleep at night, thinking about tea but not rice, and they were uneasy; It's even more annoying to wait for the score after the exam. Once the scores are published, a nervous heart will stabilize. Children admitted to school are overjoyed, and children with unsatisfactory grades must be depressed. If children's psychological endurance is poor, parents will no longer guide them, and children often cannot bear the blow of failing in the college entrance examination. Parents should correctly guide their children to have a normal mind and let them correctly understand and understand the college entrance examination. Parents should instill a correct concept of examination in their children. Only when the results are not satisfactory will the children face the reality and accept the status quo. Only when you are admitted to a university can you "leap into the dragon's gate", otherwise you will "fall into the sky". This wrong understanding will make children feel invisible psychological pressure, which will turn into a kind of negative energy over time and affect their body and mind. It is a turning point for parents to lead their children to find another way, and it is also an important starting point for life. Scores can determine whether you can go to college or not, but they can never determine what path you choose tomorrow. "Three hundred and sixty lines, each line is the best", although it has been said for so many years, once it comes to yourself, it will get out of control. Every parent wants their children to go out of sunshine avenue through the "independent" road of college entrance examination, completely ignoring that there are thousands of ways to live. The process of children's learning is the process of acquiring knowledge and the way to acquire survival skills, not just for the college entrance examination. Parents should have a correct attitude. A child's life is more than just going to college. They still have a lot of things to do. Don't judge a child's ability by scores, but see other advantages of the child. What a child needs after losing is support. Don't blame, complain or ignore children. No matter how badly your child does in the exam, he will always be your child. Don't shut him out just because the exam is not ideal. At this time, what children need is the support of their parents, not constant nagging. Parents always give encouragement and affirmation to their children. When children return to China with unsatisfactory grades, they should be comforted and accompanied, instead of blindly feeling sorry for themselves or even being cold. Don't complain to your children. Some parents will complain to their children because they failed the exam: "It's not easy for you to go to school these years. You can't bear to eat, spend, scrimp and save, you pay the tuition, and you ... "Similar words will make your children feel guilty, make them feel worthless, and will deeply hurt their hearts. Malignant incidents caused by the failure of the college entrance examination occur every year, which has to attract the attention of parents. Let children know from an early age that the exam is just an exam, which is no different from attending classes at ordinary times. Parents should not attach too much importance to scores in concept and should not give their children any psychological pressure. Correct guidance is still necessary and necessary. Letting children pass every exam is not only to test the soundness of their knowledge, but more importantly, to exercise their own personality and psychological quality. When parents face the exam, they can be calm and their children will face it correctly. Parents' attitude will directly affect children's psychological changes, so that the college entrance examination can really play a role, and don't let the college entrance examination become an insurmountable psychological obstacle for some children.
How should we face our parents when we fail in the senior high school entrance examination? What are we afraid of? We are still young. If we lose, we will fall.
get up
Don't say anything, do your practical action!
No matter what school you are in!
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How can parents encourage their children when they fail in the college entrance examination, and then let them repeat!
That year, I failed in the college entrance examination, and my father only laughed at me. I said I wanted a second interview, but my dad ignored me. I thought he didn't agree, and finally I applied for a junior college, and then I was promoted to a junior college. I'm a senior now. In the second day of junior high school, my dad told me which of your classmates can retake the exam. I said, then why don't you let me repeat it? My dad said, don't you want to repeat it? I am speechless. ...
Then think about it, just after the exam, my dad said he would repeat it, and I don't want to study either. Later, I wanted to repeat my studies, but my dad didn't care, and that's it.
Be sure to communicate well with your child in the future to avoid misunderstanding.
Also, in fact, I think that most of my major and knowledge are science majors. Maybe this major in college is not too heavy, and it doesn't feel as good as a junior college. I'm still eating the old money from the junior college.
How can I convince my parents if I don't do well in the exam? Tell your parents to find a teacher to make up lessons.
Personally, I don't think Chinese can be improved in a day or two. Reading more literary works will help.
Well, you can also subscribe to some children's magazines and stories. Improve vocabulary and reading ability.
Let your parents see your future performance.
I wish you progress every day.
Parents who failed in the senior high school entrance examination complained that their parents could not understand our ideas!
You need to tell them by actions that you can stand in the crowd of successful people! Believe in yourself.
Did you play online games in the old society? For example, a dream westward journey.
I'll tell you something I experienced personally, which may be useful to you. I started playing fantasy when I was 5 years old, and my academic performance was not satisfactory. Until the second day of junior high school, my mother asked me to hand in your legend in a special way, and she must give it back to me later. I'd better listen to it. The grade changes like this: it was 33 before it was handed in, and then it was 7 after half a semester!
Believe in yourself, you will make your parents proud! They also have infinite hope for you.
What should I tell my parents if I fail in the exam? I failed this exam, but, dear adults, you must never judge heroes by success or failure.