The quality of children's grades cannot be said to depend on talent or hard work. Only by combining the two can we achieve good results.

Having good study habits is a process that needs long-term cultivation. The cultivation of children's good study habits should start from an early age, which needs good family education as the backing. If parents don't pay attention to learning, can't provide a good learning atmosphere for their children, and even reveal the concept of "reading is useless", then this child often pays little attention to learning and his study habits are not much better.

Children's learning is also inseparable from a good learning attitude. Some children are fragile inside, and it is unbearable to encounter setbacks. They often give up on themselves after several failures, but they can't be more frustrated and brave. And those who are strong in heart and dare to challenge failure can catch up and achieve satisfactory results through hard work. In senior three, two students with similar grades chose to repeat because the college entrance examination was not ideal. That fragile classmate is often anxious and sad, and his grades have not improved after reviewing for a year. Another person who is usually positive and optimistic calmly faces failure, tries hard to catch up, and his repeat grades are greatly improved.

99% sweat plus 1% diligence Lu Xun once said: Where there is no genius, I spend other people's coffee time at work. Genius is 99% sweat and 1% diligence. Therefore, it is not a "stupid" word that causes problems in children's learning. In short, "this child is not born to learn" should not be used as an excuse to give up the child. It is to find reasons, find ways, and guide skillfully to help children improve as soon as possible. So what aspects can parents start to cultivate their children?

First of all: give children a kind of self-confidence. Achievement is not very important, but children's self-confidence is very important. Once children lose confidence in their studies, it may be difficult to improve their grades. Therefore, when your child doesn't study well, don't compare with others' children, but try to find out the advantages of the child, encourage and praise him more, and let him feel the fun of learning, and he will naturally get better gradually.

Whether a child's grades are good or bad must be related to talent. But people with extremely high and low talents, or people with excellent and extremely poor talents, are only a few people after all and have their own talents. The only difference is that everyone's talent is in one or several aspects. Some people have talent for music, some people have talent for sports, some people have talent for sports, some people have talent for business, and some people have talent for reading and learning.

Objectively speaking, not every child has the same talent in reading and learning. Similarly, in reading and learning, different children have different performances in Chinese, mathematics, politics, English, physics, chemistry, history, geography, biology, music, art, physical education and other subjects. In addition to early education, preschool education, learning foundation, learning interest, learning understanding, learning attitude and learning methods, some children will have obvious talents in a certain subject, some children will be "ignorant" in a certain subject, some children will have obvious talents in a certain subject, some children have talents in liberal arts, and some children have talents in science.