I have done homework with my children in Starbucks several times, and it has nothing to do with liking it. Sometimes it is because of an appointment with a client that it is definitely too late to send the children home to meet the client. Sometimes I make an appointment for online courses, so I can't go home directly after school, so I can only find a quiet place nearby to take classes with my mobile phone. Sometimes a new product comes out and children want to try it. Sometimes I feel that the parent-child relationship is tense recently, and I will choose to do my homework outside to eat and relax. For me, Starbucks is not necessary, as long as it is quiet.
Take children to Starbucks to do their homework and analyze what kind of mentality may offend even onlookers.
Driving a famous car, carrying a name bag and going in and out of wealth used to be a symbol of status. Identity culture is an important creation of hierarchical restriction and management in ancient society. It plays an important role in avoiding the war disaster caused by social disorder. The important foundation of social stratification is the material foundation. For a long time, people's worship of material things is almost no less than the worship of God.
Adults may feel a sense of tranquility when they go to a place like Starbucks, because people here seem to have a certain sense of identity, respect each other and communicate quietly. But will children feel the same way?
Another phenomenon is that many people prefer crowded environment to staying at home quietly, which is a psychological phenomenon. Similarly, do children think so?
In short, it is very good for children to concentrate on their homework. Nowadays, many children are often separated from their parents in their early childhood. Later, the long-term school group life also led children to get used to the quiet crowd environment, which may help children concentrate and finish their homework quickly.
We can't judge others' lives. Pay attention to children's learning, and do some thinking from children's point of view for children's learning.
It is impossible for every child to learn and think in an environment like Starbucks. I don't think it is the opinion of most people that most children go to such a place.
With the development of society, there will always be new life phenomena in human urbanization. Suiting children and people's wishes is always the choice of life.
What kind of mentality can I have ... Just the cram school is nearby, waiting for the class to rest, and there is no place to go, so I can only do my homework in it and seize all the time. My family is also doing homework in Jiahe Yipin, Acer Champion, KFC McDonald's, purely because it is close to the cram school and there is a place …
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I often see this phenomenon because my children like to eat Starbucks cakes, and there happens to be a Starbucks near the interest class. So, every time after class, I will take him to eat something. You can usually see several children doing homework or reading books accompanied by their parents. Once, there happened to be such a family of three sitting at the next table. Parents are talking about the day's itinerary, as if their children had just finished any interest classes in the morning and had other classes in the afternoon, and their home was far from here, so they had a rest at Starbucks to avoid being too tired to run back and forth.
Parents take their children to Starbucks to pretend that the owners are mainly for these reasons:
First, the weekend schedule is too tight, and the home is far from class. Walking back and forth will not only consume the energy of children and parents, but also waste a lot of time on the road, and there are security risks.
Second, Starbucks is widely distributed and can be found near the business circle; Starbucks' quiet environment is suitable for children to study in, and most children prefer Starbucks cakes and other desserts, which can not only fill their stomachs, but also study with peace of mind.
Some people may say that parents take their children to Starbucks to do homework to show off their wealth, but I think this is a misunderstanding. It is also helpless for parents to take their children to Starbucks to do homework. There are really many unreasonable factors in going back and forth. Although Starbucks is expensive, you can sit in it for half a day by buying a cake. Some parents simply want to find a relatively comfortable rest environment for their children, or even buy vegetables for their children, and they are unwilling to eat them, so that they will not cause too much economic pressure.
In fact, the best place to do homework is the study room. Although Starbucks is relatively quiet, it is a business place after all. There will be many people coming and going, and guests will chat and talk inside. Although the voice is very low, it is definitely a kind of interference for children who are easily distracted. So Starbucks environment can bring children rest and relaxation. If you want your children to study hard, you'd better not choose to do homework at Starbucks.
When I go to the training class, I sometimes find a place nearby to sit and wait for time to do my homework. Chinese restaurants are not allowed because they don't eat dinner. The only places to choose are Starbucks and KFC, which are too noisy. Children who go to Starbucks are also more willing to concentrate on their studies, and I can't tell why.
I didn't understand why I had to take my children to do homework in public places before, but now my children are older and attend extracurricular classes after school. For example, on Tuesday, children go to kindergarten at five o'clock and go to extracurricular classes at six o'clock. For this hour, they can only find a place to play or rest at the gate of the extracurricular class. They do their homework, play without it, and avoid going home to do their homework after class. This is why children should be taken to do their homework in public.
What psychology is this used to analyze? Now it is the free time of cram schools, and cram schools should grab classes in advance. If they can't grab the right time, they will probably have a two-hour break and a long way home, so they have to find a place with seats and air conditioning around them to learn to eat and drink. In fact, there are many children doing their homework at KFC and McDonald's, but there are too many children there and there will be noise. Not only Starbucks, but also many business districts, coffee shops and book bars where cram schools are concentrated have children doing their homework. If you have to analyze your mentality, will a slightly more expensive place be quieter? Many fast food restaurants are particularly noisy as soon as meals arrive, and the coffee shop book bar will be much quieter.
The problem of brain water, Starbucks has food and drink, why can't children do their homework in it? Maybe you play computer homework in it and don't let the children do their homework? How about going to Starbucks in Hong Kong, where students are everywhere?
1, save trouble. Starbucks eats and drinks, the environment is quiet, homework is finished, and the food is finished. You don't have to clean up your homework and cook when you go home.
2. Enjoy life rationally. People live more than 30,000 days in a hundred years. If conditions permit, you can fully feel the petty bourgeoisie life, which not only relaxes yourself but also cultivates children's awareness of high-quality life.
I like a relaxed environment. Many people feel bound at home, but it is different outside.
I like the feeling of consumption. No matter high or low, as long as you spend money, you will always feel happy.