Young parents who are new parents will feel that their children will sleep when they are full before they are two years old, and eat when they are full. Apart from crying occasionally, other aspects are almost impeccable, just like the existence of angels. But once they reach the age of 2, they start hitting people, biting people, throwing toys around, rummaging through everything, acting recklessly and even constantly fighting against their parents. Countless parents have a headache for this. 2-year-olds are really scary.

Let's take a look at the behaviors of 2-year-old children that make parents headache:

1. No longer eat well, two-year-old children can already run around. Lively and active is the nature of children, including when eating, it is difficult for them to sit still and want to run around like they did when they were over one year old.

Some parents choose to chase after the baby's ass with a rice bowl, and the baby eats while playing. In order to let the baby eat well, many parents will let the baby sit in a high chair and want to train the child to eat by himself. Unexpectedly, the child showed strong resistance, directly knocked over the food, and even made a sharp strange call.

2. Nursing mothers who like to bite must have a deep understanding. After the baby teethed, he began to bite. When eating, I often bite my mother. At this time, many mothers have the idea of preparing to wean their babies.

Even after weaning, the baby's habit of biting has not decreased, but has intensified. No matter what is put in his mouth, he bites and even likes to bite. It's hard to prevent.

3. throwing things around, the 2-year-old baby not only runs around, but also has strong hands-on ability. He often turns the house upside down and throws away his toys when he doesn't play. His toys are everywhere in the house.

Looking at the clean and tidy house, the baby will soon be in a mess, and many parents must have collapsed. Every day is spent between sorting and littering and sorting and littering. Since having children, I have never had a tidy home. This is the painful experience of my father Ma Bao.

4. Love to lose your temper. The 2-year-old baby began to have his own consciousness and thoughts, but he didn't know how to express them correctly. As a result, he lost his temper when he didn't agree with a word, and began to roll on the ground, yelling, crying and even hitting people, so as to let his parents satisfy his wishes.

If the parents agree when the baby cries, he will think it is very useful, and it will often happen in the future.

5. Graffiti Some parents will find that after 2 years old, their baby is simply a "problem children" who likes to doodle at home. The snow-white wall will soon be covered with children's graffiti. Some parents will try to stop it, and some parents will simply let the baby scribble at will.

Sometimes I take some paints and drawing boards to draw for my baby, and as a result, my baby draws a big face directly for himself.

Third, how to accompany your child through this stage? First, learn to understand and support.

These behaviors of children are actually the process of their constant exploration in the face of the unknown world and all kinds of new things. There is no ready-made method, every exploration is a brand-new attempt, and it is also the baby's continuous cognitive process of the world.

As parents, especially young parents, they should learn to understand, be more tolerant and even support themselves to explore the unknown world. They also need to grow up little by little in the expectation and care of their families. Understand that children's behavior is a small problem that will appear at a specific time. Be the strongest backing for children and give them respect and support.

Secondly, love and discipline should go hand in hand.

As the saying goes, without rules, there would be no Fiona Fang.

This sentence is used to raise children, but also to raise themselves, and it still has educational significance.

When the child is crying and disobedient, don't compromise blindly, which will only make the baby's temper bigger and bigger. The correct way is to ignore it first, and then tell the baby how to express his appeal when he meets something, not by crying. Remember not to confront your child head-on, stick both hard and soft, and don't label your child as "disobedient", "naughty" and "naughty".

You can make small rules in your life with your children, such as when to eat, when to sleep, when to eat and not to do other things, and when to put toys back. When you set a goal, you must carry it through. When children obey the rules, they should be praised and encouraged in time.

Finally, we should pay attention to the cultivation of good habits.

2-year-old children are about to enter a brand-new stage and will also face new challenges. Children are going to start early education centers or kindergartens, so they should be prepared in advance.

Do a good job in toilet training, so that children can slowly change their defecation habits and better adapt to collective life;

Sleep in your own crib independently, reduce separation anxiety and develop good sleep habits;

Establish an effective reward and punishment mechanism so that children can distinguish right from wrong and distinguish right from wrong;

Control aggressive behaviors such as hitting people and get along well with other small partners;

Respect children's awareness of property rights and don't force them to share. Doing these aspects well will benefit children a lot.

A cheerful and intelligent child can't be separated from his parents' company and careful teaching. By parents at home and abroad as a treasure in the book "terrible 2 years old" said:

Please remember: real parenting begins at the age of two! Only by comprehensively and deeply understanding the nature of "Terrible II" and mastering scientific and effective coping methods can we raise children happily and cultivate children full of happiness. Raising children, 2 years old is just a new starting point, and the road ahead is very long.

Children have 1000 reasons to cry, so as parents, we should study hard1000 solutions.

Raising children is like playing games. One level is more difficult than the other.

I hope we can upgrade happily with our children.

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