At school, watching a group of busy figures, their backs are soaked with sweat, and their clothes are soaked with sweat, I can't help but sigh, this is what people often say about China's parents.
Taking children as the center, you can give everything for children.
Have money for the next generation.
Have a car to pick up the next generation
There is room for the next generation.
Eat it yourself if you are bitter.
Suffer the pain yourself.
Fear of children losing at the starting line, prenatal education, early education, various cram schools and extra-long classes, and willingness to be cattle and horses for children are indeed common phenomena of most parents in China.
Actually, I am no exception. I value my children more than myself. I can tighten my clothes and go on a diet, but I am generous to my children. I eat, drink and wear.
As long as the children say something is missing, I will try my best to satisfy them as soon as I give the order.
Sometimes, watching children has some bad habits, such as carelessness and laziness, and always secretly blames themselves. Perhaps it is the reason why I have been with them all these years, and I have done too much for them, so that they have no chance to exercise themselves and miss the opportunity to learn.
Taking a taxi brought back the children's quilts, clothes, shoes, washing utensils and learning utensils. Our home is on the fourth floor, and we moved our things to the fourth floor. At this time, our faces were flushed with heat, our heads were dizzy, and we felt that we were going to get heatstroke.
Turn on the air conditioner when you enter the room, cool down for a while, have a rest, and it will be past one o'clock at noon.
Maybe it's because it's too hot and I sweat a lot. I don't feel hungry except for thirst. I said to my daughter with emotion, "This man, who is hungry for two days, will never last for two days." Do you feel the same way?
It's already past three in the afternoon. I was in my bedroom when I suddenly heard a boy's voice outside, talking to my daughter. Oh, it turns out that my son has come back from vacation and his mouth is too hot. I rushed out to say hello to my son and saw his back soaked with sweat.
Asked if the child had eaten at noon, he said no, and I said, "The rice cooked at noon, your favorite beef and vegetarian dishes, shall I heat it up for you?"
He said, no, I'm not hungry.
In the meantime, the male classmate who usually likes to play with him followed, and asked his classmates. They said that he had a few days off and he had dinner together at noon.
They left their things at home, but they were not afraid of the heat and ran out again.
When it gets dark, the sun has set, the weather is still very hot and the temperature remains the same, but without sunshine, we can go out for activities.
I took three children out for a simple meal, but the two older ones barely ate, and the younger daughter didn't eat a bite, saying that the meal was not delicious.
Take a walk in the park after dinner, the purpose is to cultivate parent-child relationship and feelings with children, but I don't want them to play mobile phones at home.
The youngest daughter kept complaining all the way, shouting that she was tired and didn't want to leave. I said that she lacked exercise and stayed in an air-conditioned room for a long time, so she didn't want to exercise and even felt tired when she walked.
Several people walked and talked all the way. Time passed quickly and they got home soon.
Talk to your eldest daughter about next year's college entrance examination, and ask your child if he has a favorite college goal, or if he wants to go to the south or the north. Or which city? The daughter said: There are not many goals and directions for the time being. Now there is only one, Shanghai Jiaotong University, but Shanghai Jiaotong University focuses on science, and her daughter studies liberal arts.
I took it, smiled and said, "You haven't forgotten your initiative, go."
Because this is her dream of grade two, her dream of college is the same as that of a better classmate.
Speaking of that classmate, I asked if there was any contact. She said: before qq, I still posted a spatial dynamic on 20 18. How can I have time? Yes, high school time is really tight.
Speaking of buying a mobile phone, she used to have a mobile phone, but she bought it in the second grade of junior high school. The screen is too bad to look good. Last year, she also took a fancy to a mobile phone during the Spring Festival. Because the holiday was too late, we had something to do and didn't go home for the New Year until the next afternoon.
So I put it on hold. Actually, to be honest, I still don't want to buy it. I was a freshman last year. If I buy a new one, wouldn't it be more reluctant to leave it?
Make do with it. I want to buy a good one after the contour test.
I mentioned my mobile phone last night and asked if I would buy it this holiday. She said: well, actually, I bought it now, and it won't take a few days. The holiday time is short, the school starts early, and the senior three is tighter, with the focus on sprinting.
I said: Yes, after the college entrance examination next year, I will go to college to buy you a new mobile phone and notebook, and my daughter seems to agree.
I added: It is really difficult for some students who have taken the exam twice to choose a school, especially for liberal arts, and it is also difficult to choose a major. There's an exam anyway! Because there are examples around.
The daughter smiled and said, why didn't you say 2 1 1 985?
I said, I'm afraid I'm putting too much pressure on you. I'm afraid you will be unhappy. I smiled and joked to her.
My daughter smiled and said, I won't do that. I'm not that stupid.
In fact, I also gave her a vaccination, for fear that she would be overwhelmed by the pressure of studying in senior three.
I often tell them that life is more important than anything else. What's the point of having more without life? It is right to give children some appropriate pressure, but psychological guidance should also be given in time.
To tell the truth, my children are too lax in their primary and junior high schools, so that their grades are not very good. What I wanted before was to let them develop a self-disciplined child to study and cultivate their sense of autonomy, but how can children be so self-disciplined and some lazy study habits will be developed.
The eldest daughter got better grades, but she stayed in the regular class. However, from primary school to junior high school and then to high school, she has always been a top student. Although she is at the top of her class, she is not in the whole school. She needs to work harder! The potential has never been fully realized. If the third year of senior high school is working hard and restraining their behavior habits, the ideal university should not be a problem.
My youngest daughter and son have more average grades. I only hope that when they grow up, they will understand that learning is their own business, and then seize the time to make a final sprint and counterattack, and regard learning as a happy thing, grow up happily, learn happily and fight back happily!