The education of parents is a topic that children talk about before they are born. I hate it when a child is born and can learn this and that. My children can recite Tang poems, read books and count.
This is the "skill" that parents often let their children show, that is, the first sentence that parents ask after coming home from parent-child class is still "What did you learn today?" As an indicator to measure whether children have gained anything.
Parents define the learning of infants as academic learning, especially in large classes. If there is no homework in this kindergarten, parents think that this kindergarten can't teach literacy and Chinese Pinyin, forcing some kindergartens to teach their children to learn in advance.
In fact, excessive early development and early education will hinder the normal development of children.
The "excessive" here has two meanings: first, it is ahead, thinking that the early development, the earlier the better; The second is excessive, thinking that learning early, learning more, the better.
Elkind, a child psychologist, once pointed out that premature formal education, too hastily urging children to grow up, will actually put children in short-term or long-term danger, including anxiety and fear of learning, fatigue, lack of hobbies, inefficiency, and finally lead to psychological, especially emotional disorders.
For preschool children, we can't talk about education completely out of life. We should teach them through training, and regard the cultivation of a series of survival abilities such as dressing, eating, going to the toilet, playing games and socializing as education.
In our life, early education is everywhere. For example, if you take your baby out, you can tell your baby that there are trees on both sides of the road. When you open the refrigerator, tell your baby that it is a refrigerator. When you give your baby an apple, tell him it's an apple. When you go to the supermarket, point to the things on the shelf and tell him that they are biscuits and drinks.
In our life, early education is everywhere. For example, if you take your baby out, you can tell your baby that there are trees on both sides of the road. When you open the refrigerator, tell your baby that it is a refrigerator. When you give your baby an apple, tell him it's an apple. When you go to the supermarket, point to the things on the shelf and tell him that they are biscuits and drinks.
But few parents can really do such a simple thing.
Usually, taking children to the supermarket is to buy things in a hurry and leave, and even the baby is dragged away when he looks at the container. When I was cleaning at home, I was also boring my head and disturbing the hygiene. I never told the baby that this is a broom and a coffee table. Don't forget there is a baby at home. He is curious about the world and hopes to learn more from his parents.
In addition, when the baby is eating, can parents ask, baby, what are you eating? These little moves can improve your baby's cognitive ability.
You and your baby are ready to have breakfast together. Let your child guess: "Guess what our mother did this morning?" "Do you want millet porridge or rice porridge?" In this way, the baby can participate in chatting and enhance his language ability.
Going up and down stairs will be very tiring, so many babies don't like climbing stairs, but if mom and dad count step by step at this time, first, the baby's math and logic ability will be improved, and second, he will feel the joy of counting stairs. You wouldn't be so noisy. You have to hug.
Also, you will find that babies like to play with books when they are young. In fact, ordinary books may cut their tender little hands. It is best to buy a special early education card for the baby. First, turning pages can enhance the baby's fine movements, and second, it will be easy to teach the baby to recognize things. At the beginning of learning, you must speak slowly. Don't study too much in one day. After the baby has mastered it, learn the next one.