Mr. Zhu Qinglan, a famous patriotic general in modern China, also had profound views on early education. He said: "The child was born like snow-white silk, and it was fed at home for six years, like the first dye vat; Entering school at the age of 6 is like the second dye vat; Leaving school at the age of 20 to work with people in the world is like the third dye vat. " He thinks the key is "the first dye vat". The "first dyeing vat" is marked with "red foundation". In the future, people with good education and influence will become "scarlet" and "scarlet". Even if they are adversely affected later, the "red base" will not change soon. If the "first dyeing vat" is dyed as a "black foundation", it will be well educated and influenced later, and the original "black foundation" will hardly fade. Mr. Zhu Lao's theory of "three dye vats" vividly shows that the software installed before the child is 6 years old can be related to the child's later life.

For the baby who loves to listen to stories, any short story will stir up waves, big or small, just like a small stone on a calm lake. I have always felt that since the children came to us with ears, our words and deeds are what Mr. Zhu Qinglan said. I want to leave my children with crystal clear beauty.

One. For parent-child classes, we say no!

There are more and more preschool classes and parent-child classes, but my husband and I have some outdated and old-fashioned choices to say "no!" . For a middle-income family like us, it's nothing to bite your teeth, except that parents don't add new clothes and be less romantic. Even parents with no educational level will be less loving and patient than teachers in parent-child classes. This is just my personal opinion, please don't attack. It is also good to read more books on parenting and infant psychology while you are young. Just study by yourself, can you take better care of your children?

Every parent knows to teach students in accordance with their aptitude, and some parent-child parks also say that children at different stages will teach students in accordance with their aptitude and have personalized education. I have seen, even if a class has 10 babies, (I have been to several, and I don't know this number on Saturday and Sunday in each class) how to personalize education? Not a primary school student, you can use system constraints. They are just an industry, and they need to copy in batches to get benefits faster.

Two. We say no to the painting art class offered in kindergarten!

A few days ago, I dived in Sina forum and saw the post posted by my mother, "Don't let the baby go to class to learn painting ~ kill imagination!" " 》/thread-2 159230- 1- 1 . html

I feel the same way about this post. . . . Not all parents can teach themselves music, art and dance, but of course they need various art classes to edify and cultivate them. My opinion is that I would rather let my baby develop freely, only keep my curiosity and interest in music, art and dance, and never study at will.

Killing the imagination is really terrible. Although imagination is just something invisible and intangible.

When it comes to letting children learn to draw, everyone thinks of the aunts in kindergarten (I mean the ordinary majority here, not the elite kindergartens! ) Can you take your baby with you to tolerate her child's innocent colors and creativity? Can you see the magical story of children's happy children from crooked little people and unsightly spacecraft? Like Edison's crooked bench and the apple on Newton's head.

Three. For beautiful fairy tales, we can't all say "OK" ~

I saw a lot of mom's blogs and my lovely little princess. After listening to this story, I took the liberty of saying, "The prince and princess lived happily ever after."

For more and more only children now, I don't like them to listen to stories that end like this. What about the father and mother of the prince and princess? Why did the princess leave her mother when she was born? Children's world is a fairy tale, but are more fairy tales really suitable for children? A few days ago, someone gave me a luxurious version of the story of growing up with a good girl, which contained many sad endings and violent ways of doing things. What about Andersen and Green? There are many stories that need parents' guidance to tell well. If you have no time to guide your child, you might as well make up some meaningful stories to put your child to sleep.

Four. I can't say "ok" to the evaluation of kindergarten teachers.

My family treasure, when I was in kindergarten, every time I talked to the teacher, what the teacher said most was that he was smart, but his parents could be more serious and strict, and his achievements in all aspects would be more outstanding! I know what he means, because my kindergarten teacher and I have different opinions on children's literacy! I don't know whether it is the requirement of kindergarten or the planning of the Ministry of Education. In fact, there are literacy classes in kindergartens. Our children like to listen to stories and are full of curiosity and enthusiasm for literacy. My husband and I have opposite attitudes towards kindergarten.

According to the actual situation of my family, sending children to kindergarten is just to play with them, not to study. Children should feel the warmth and happiness freely in their time, and also feel the baby's imagination and the unique spirituality of children.

Five. Be careful when buying books for your baby!

Tell me about the books that the baby is reading at this stage! South Korea's "Big Shit" (a full set of more than ten books, the name of the book collection has been forgotten), the monkey fishing for the moon's baby circle book collection, and Japanese jade timberwolves and sheep (a set of four volumes)-Yuichi Kimura (very expensive! Return to 80 yuan after discount! But highly recommended, very sincere and touching story for children to see! ! ), a good student's set of 5 books (highly recommended, this is a group purchase, 50% off 50 yuan's set of 5 books, you can draw and read, which is very good value! Probably the best book I have ever bought! ), fruit and diapers bear series, cat and dog friends series

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PS: Many mothers sent me short messages asking me where I bought the book! I can't reply to all the messages, so let's introduce them here.

Too many. I screened them all. I'm relieved that the baby likes them ~ I'll sort out the catalogue when I have time ~ There are about 100 copies ~ Most of them are bought in Amazon ~ Sometimes Dangdang is a few cents cheaper than Amazon ~ I'll choose Dangdang ~ Haha ~ I'll live in my own house, and saving a dime is a dime! Only good students ordered it directly from the website of good boys company ~ because it was delivered exclusively by themselves ~ but the price was not expensive ~ I got it at the group purchase price ~

This newsstand is very interesting and creative. If kindergarten teaches children to read like this, I won't refuse. Their design conforms to children's way of thinking, so that children not only like reading. You can also cultivate other abilities! I won't say anything else! Please don't send me any more text messages asking if the book is good! thank you