The above sentence is one of the most classic sentences I have heard recently. This suddenly reminds me of the slogan of many preschool education institutions "Don't let children lose at the starting line". Attracted many people to win at the starting point, but unexpectedly lost at the end.
In fact, in real life, besides joys and sorrows, joys and sorrows are full of all kinds of cruelty and injustice. If you don't face life with a grateful heart, this situation is even more serious.
Some children dream of flying in space, while others can put on a new pair of shoes.
Some people have too much, which becomes a burden. Some people want to have a little, but they can't afford it.
Some people are born with extraordinary talents, while others rely on sweat and can only persist at best.
Some people use diamonds and luxury cars to set off love, while others can only protect love with their bare hands.
There are many people who are born with their own light, but most people have to work hard to shine.
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Can people who are not cared for by the so-called fate only accept their fate and admit cowardice?
No one's life can be smooth sailing, and there will always be such difficulties. No matter whether you come from the second generation or the poor generation, everyone is equal in the face of difficulties and illness.
As the saying goes, "Man proposes, God disposes." There are always many uncontrollable factors that make you fall into adversity.
At this time, we must be steady and not slip. If the situation is chaotic, then we will lose the opportunity to make a comeback.
Just like playing chess. Once you play dirty chess and the situation is passive, the more you want to get back the court. Chess style will suddenly become particularly aggressive. The bigger the flaw in the game, the more opponents will take advantage of it and eventually lose the game.
Be firm in the face of adversity. What you have to do is not to win at once, but not to lose now. As the old saying goes, if you stay in the green hills, you will not worry about burning firewood.
First, stabilize the present, control the situation and prevent the situation from deteriorating. Then accumulate strength, accumulate strength, wait for opportunities, and stage a counterattack.
Prosperity must be determined: adversity is more worthy of vigilance than prosperity. Kafka has a saying that the heart is a house with two bedrooms, one with pain and the other with joy. People can't laugh too loudly. Otherwise laughter will wake up the pain in the next room.
As the old saying goes, a blessing in disguise is a blessing in disguise. It's every cloud has a silver lining.
A moment's prosperity does not mean eternal prosperity, and a moment's joy is not necessarily eternal joy. It is also a temporary difficulty, which does not mean that it has always been bumpy, and occasional setbacks can't drown out a lifetime of efforts.
Luck can't stand by and watch you forever. Whether a person can succeed smoothly is not a skill, but a person's ability to resist adversity.
In farmland, if plants such as pumpkins grow too fast, they must be pinched off. If you don't pinch your head, you won't grow melons.
People in prosperity tend to drift with the flow and are not practical. Just like this pumpkin, it is more important to settle down and be down-to-earth in order to bear fruit.
During the Spring and Autumn Period, Sun Shuai, the prime minister of Chu, was once a very important minister, but left no property to future generations. Before he died, he told his son to go back to his hometown to farm, and specially chose a barren land for his son as a fief. Because Sun Shuai once thought that fiefs were not fat, children and grandchildren should be thrifty and accumulate slowly, which is a good way for children to become talents.
Sun Shuai 'ao understands that prosperity is more alarming than adversity.
Frustration: it is the mentality that determines a person's fate. Although life is not satisfactory, nine times out of ten many things in life are independent of people's will, and each of us can't succeed in everything. We cherish the hard-won 1 12 more, so that even if life often encounters storms, it is for us to enjoy the rainbow often.
Su Shi was demoted. When he first came to Huangzhou, he wrote, "I have hated this body for a long time. When did you forget to camp?" And "after picking up all the cold branches, I refuse to live in a lonely sandbar." His inner entanglement and depression can be seen.
But then what? Su Dongpo was exiled to further Hainan. He wrote, "300 lychees a day, I don't want to grow up to be a Lingnan person." Su Dongpo once had an epiphany and was completely open-minded, so that the landscape changed color.
Moreover, once a person has a philosophy, he can open up another field and make a satisfactory appearance in a frustrated place. Su Shi lived in Hainan, educated the people and taught them to farm, and realized his ideal of saving the country and the people in a wild land.
Did not punish people's fate. Only complaining about others and giving up on yourself is the real tragedy of life.
Self-satisfaction: Fade the glitz, fame and fortune are just embellishments. Guo Ziyi has made great contributions to the world. There are countless sons and daughters of officials in the family, and all the water rafts used by the imperial court can be piled on the same bed. So what? Finally, it is not a humble room, but an empty spider web.
"The success or failure of right and wrong has become empty". Since the Three Emperors and Five Emperors, it's just that you sing and I come on stage. Since ancient times, there have been many heroes, and the hills in the north and south are muddy. As the saying goes, I cherish Qin Huang Hanwu, and I am a little coquettish. Genghis Khan only knew how to shoot an eagle with a bow.
As the Bible teaches, "vanity vanity, vanity, everything is vanity" and everything is "like a bubble in a dream".
Chen, the actor of Lin Daiyu in the 87th edition of A Dream of Red Mansions, became famous after performing A Dream of Red Mansions. She set up her own company and gained fame and fortune. At the height of her career, she was diagnosed with breast cancer. From then on, she looked down on the world. She chose to become a monk in 2007 and died in the same year.
If you lose too much, you will look down. People who died on the operating table once and those who were pulled out of the ruins during the earthquake are more likely to be looked down upon.
Westerners often say that students come from death and students come from death. Only when people know the limit of life can they understand what is the most precious in this world.
Health, affection and friendship are far more valuable than fame and fortune. As a result, life began to fade away, and pride and frustration were just embellishments, which were no longer necessary.
Such a person begins to have an unbreakable home, and the coming and going of fame and fortune can no longer disturb his inner peace.
No matter what the situation is, the attitude towards life depends on three things: holding your breath, bending down and raising your head.
The so-called calmness is the ability to think independently and independently.
In the journey of life, there are inevitably peaks and valleys. How to stay calm when climbing the peak, stay calm when entering the trough, stay awake when facing temptation, and remain uncertain when encountering danger, you need to hold your horses and distinguish calmly and keep a clear head.
Never be arrogant or complain at any time, and you can stick to your own principles and do things in your own way. This is a calm, rational precipitation, mature performance.
Bending down really is a gesture and an inner confidence.
Bend down, get along with people weaker than yourself, communicate well with anyone and make sincere friends.
Bend down, do trivial things, and do the details in place, and there will be a pattern of doing great things.
Bend down, face the criticism of others, accept it with an empty cup mentality, and always think about what shortcomings you have and how to improve.
Only when you can bend down and bear the pressure can you stand up and meet the glory.
Hold your head up so that you can always see the road in the distance.
Holding one's head high is a sign of inner firmness, and you can maintain a healthy and optimistic attitude at any time.
People who can hold their heads high can see their goals more clearly and will not be affected by obstacles under their feet, so that they can make great strides toward their goals.
People who hold their heads high can see the surrounding environment clearly and distinguish the people around them, so they will not be arrogant and get more help.
If you meet people with these three qualities, you are worth socializing with. Of course, just like people are divided into groups, we should also strive to be people with these three precious qualities!
I hope that in the future, we can all hold our breath, bend down, hold our heads high, move forward firmly, live in the present, don't give up, work hard and live a good life.