I really want to tell myself that children can lose at the starting line, as long as they catch up later. But it turns out that if the starting line is different, their future pattern will be different.

Like thousands of young parents in Qian Qian, I once thought that children's childhood was just play, so don't imprison them and let them live so tired from childhood.

But I saw children from other families, and they began to learn Tang poetry and Song poetry from an early age. Some even signed up for various interest classes, study classes and early education classes.

In recent years, I have asked myself countless times whether I should train my children from an early age or give them a relaxing time before going to school.

But many people's personal experiences tell me that children should be cultivated from an early age. If you don't pay attention to this aspect, your child's future development will be limited.

Other people's children have all kinds of natural skills, when those children who pay attention to training from an early age. They stand on the shoulders of their parents. They will walk less. With this period of time, they can go higher and further.

If nothing else, compare the children in some big cities with those in remote areas. Their natural starting lines are different. Children in big cities enjoy high-quality education and resources, while children in mountainous areas have poor education and resources.

As shown in Metamorphosis, the starting point of life is different, so the surface and pattern of life are also different.

The starting line is a very important existence. Give your child a good starting line. In the same time, he can run farther than other general starting lines.

So this is why some parents would rather suffer than their children, and they would rather be poor than poor in education.

I also want to tell myself that the starting line is not important, but this is self-deception. Suppose we are in a family rich in materials and ideas, maybe our lives will be different.

The starting line is very important, just like Deng Yaping, a former Olympic champion, who started to contact table tennis at an early age. At that time, their family was not rich, but it was her parents who saw their children's intelligence and were willing to save money and support their children to learn table tennis.

It is Deng Yaping's parents who gave her a good learning environment and a unique starting point, and they have been quietly giving and supporting her behind her back, so she can persist in the end and become a grand slam winner of table tennis.

Children are too young to understand the hardships of life. If conditions permit, give your child a good starting line. I believe this is the long-cherished wish of every parent. Because parents always want their children to live better than themselves, take fewer detours, and if possible, hope their children can fly high.