She has a strong desire for fame and fortune, and is an online girl forever.

Her husband is a typical economic man, who has no pursuit in career or life. His favorite restaurant is home-cooked food in Xiaosichuan. Fish-flavored shredded pork is sold at a discount 15 yuan.

I didn't expect to go to the children's education together. Meijun advocates elite education and is keen to give children early education classes. Her husband pretended to take the children to the early education class, and as soon as he turned the corner, he threw her in the park and on the beach, leaving her to play by herself.

We often ask Meijun, how did you come together because your three views are so different?

Meijun said in a tone of female president who has always despised all beings:

"You've never been married to make it clear. Our tact is only emotional intelligence.

A good marriage must be a win-win situation for two people with emotional intelligence and progress.

A man with high emotional intelligence can inspire women's tenderness and worship; A man with low emotional intelligence can force a gentle woman to be unruly. "

02

Meijun's husband, we call him Lao Gao. How high his emotional intelligence is, you can understand a little thing.

Meijun, like many girls with chicken blood on the Internet, likes to make money and buy it at buy buy. She bought a bag if she didn't agree.

One day, Lao Gao hired a worker to make several diaphragms for the wardrobe at home. Clean up all the bags that Meijun scattered around or even stuffed at the bottom of the bookcase, and put them neatly on the partition like documents in the unit.

I don't know, but I was shocked when I counted it. Meijun realized that she had 38 bags.

"It's all stuffed. It's 50. I've posted the number below." Say it proudly.

Although she earns money by herself, Meijun still feels guilty and thinks she is too greedy, so she refrains from spending money.

If the concept of consumption is an important part of the three views, it is difficult for men and women to reach an agreement on the concept of consumption.

Men can never understand why women have 10 pairs of jeans, because in their view, there is only one style of jeans in the world, and the remaining nine pairs are the same, which is too wasteful.

Lao Gao didn't criticize Meijun like many men, but cleverly reminded Meijun that there were too many bags and gave her a step by the way: because there is no place to put the bags centrally, you must have forgotten what you bought.

Therefore, those girls who are forced by their boyfriends to shout "The mystery of my mother's sea blue is no more expensive, and it didn't cost you a penny" should try to find men with high emotional intelligence, not people with the same consumption concept.

After all, the combination of two shopaholics can almost destroy a family.

03

How to judge a person's EQ?

It's not how well he talks to the leader, nor whether he makes you laugh when he is in love, but whether he is soft-hearted when facing conflict.

The sign of high emotional intelligence is tolerance and acceptance, and there are not so many "why" and "think impassability"