Parents' requirements for children's education are not limited to winning at the starting line. Even on the way to the stadium, the children have seized the time and refused to let go. However, what most parents don't know is that excessive early education is actually not a good thing. There is a limit to everything, and so is early education. When the so-called early education gradually goes to extremes, it can only bring harm to children.
Many parents feel that the more they are one step ahead of others in their children's education, the greater their advantages in the future. As the saying goes, early children are one step faster than other children, and they may be faster than other children all their lives.
Correct early education will definitely help children a lot. But at the same time, we will also find that many children who have experienced early education will have so-called weariness after they formally go to school.
This emotion may come from many sources. But the biggest reason is because of early education. When the child should be playing carefree, the parents forcibly tied the child to the desk and chair. Such a result will definitely make children feel tired of learning.
Some parents' admiration for early education has reached an unparalleled level. Almost from the birth of a child, parents have made a strict study plan for their children.
This seemingly beneficial study plan actually hurts children the most.
When children grow up, especially when they are young, they still need to learn the knowledge in textbooks, but they still need to play more. Playing itself is also a kind of learning. Through play, children can learn many abilities that textbooks can't. For example, social skills, logical thinking skills, practical skills and so on.
These are all things that you can't learn from books alone. And if the child is very young, he is firmly bound by his parents. Then, next, the children must face less contact and communication with their peers. This is undoubtedly a major blow to the growth of children.
For example, children lack enough sense of security when they are very young. At this time, if parents are strict with their children, it is easy for them to feel the care of their parents. It is easy to become sensitive and fragile when you grow up.
For another example, children are under too much pressure in the early days and have been nervous. Children who grow up under such living conditions are likely to be unable to bear the pressure in the future and their ability to withstand pressure is extremely weak! There are actually many psychological problems like this.
Compared with a child's life, this period of childhood is actually very short. Even if parents invest a lot of money and energy, it may not really have that great effect. On the contrary, if children are allowed to grow up and play easily, they may grow up better.