After all, she is a woman who was pregnant in October. She worked hard to give birth to her child, took care of her day and night, and made sacrifices for her child wholeheartedly.
After a man's love, the small seed was successfully sown. His mission of carrying on the family line will be completed. He will not be pregnant in October, nor will he affect his work because of pregnancy and childbirth, or even nurse and take care of him day and night. Of course, some men will take care of their wives and children without clothes. But the above example only illustrates the degree of children's concern for men and women.
Before Tik Tok, there was a very popular Tik Tok, where reporters interviewed street men, women and children on hot topics. The title of the first issue is: "When you divorce, will you choose a child or a house?"
Unsurprisingly, more than 90% of men choose a house, saying that it is not easy to buy a house. Usually the husband's family pays too much, and the children will remarry in the future, but it is difficult to buy a house without it.
90% of women will choose children and think that children are the hope of the future. As long as they work hard, they will have a house and it is difficult to make up for their children's growth.
According to popular society, a woman is a real woman only when she has a child. Promote how clever motherhood is and how cute children are.
But when women choose to have children, they usually start to compromise and sacrifice themselves.
The common phenomenon is: before becoming a mother, the salary was spent on myself, and skin care products, cosmetics, clothes, shoes, nails and fitness were not enough; Weekends or holidays, all kinds of eating out. Hi. After becoming a mother, the salary is spent on children, such as milk powder, diapers, toys, early education and so on. Not enough. Before, their own needs were saved. Then the weekend holidays are also around children, and going out to eat is also dominated by children.
Being a mother's strength shows once again that children are a mother's weakness. Because of this weakness, my mother has to be strong.
Maybe the process of giving birth and bringing up children is a kind of practice for women. Because motherhood became soft, she paid unconditionally for her children regardless of her own gains and losses.
It is also because the child becomes strong, putting aside the weakness and helplessness of the little girl, and is willing to feed the future flowers for the child from flowers to soil.
Chanel Coco, the founder of Chanel, never gave birth to a child. She thinks she is her own child. She spends all her energy and money on herself and lives freely.
But not every woman can be Chanel Coco. Let's just say there are gains and losses.
The process of raising children is to hone yourself.
I hope to turn this "soft rib" into a woman's own upward energy! Come on, moms ~