First of all, I want to say that happiness is not having more, but caring less! My friends really don't envy me. I have a good job, a good parent, a good husband, a good child and a good friend ... It seems that I am God's "darling" and take advantage of the world! If I am willing to "care", I can also get rid of all kinds of troubles, such as the tangled contradictions at work, the heinous crimes of my husband, the naughty children, and the messy experiences at home ... My life is "happy" only because I look at it with a "happy" eye, face it with a "happy" mentality and walk with a "happy" pace. Traditionally, women usually take care of their husbands and educate their children. However, with the progress of the times, more and more women also expect to have their own careers and are unwilling to be bound by their families. Have an independent economic status, realize their social values and get recognition from others. The times have also given women stronger ability and better quality, and at the same time, they have given women more desires: not only to marry well, but also to do well! Everyone, male or female, expects to have a successful career and a happy family, but how many people in the world can do it? I can't do it either! Besides, I never thought of doing this! So what I want to talk about today is not how to "have the best of both worlds" between career and family, but a little experience on how to balance. (1) Giving up balance is actually achieved by giving up what you don't want so much. This is my biggest experience. I can't be greedy. I don't want to have it both ways. I don't want to have my career and my family. Therefore, when I devote myself to my work, I must give up the time to accompany my children to grow up and the warmth to accompany my parents and husband; Similarly, when my family and I are interested in traveling and taking our children to the Naughty Castle to refuel, I have to give up many opportunities for entertainment and career development. Don't ask me, which is more important, career or family? At a certain period, there is always a certain aspect that is more important. For example, when you get home, do you eat or go to bed first? If you are hungry, eat first; If you are tired, go to bed first. One weekend, I laughed and played in Naughty Castle. I saw a mother sitting on the ground reading a book, tapping with a calculator and taking notes in a hurry with a pen, as if she were doing finance. Her children are running around, and in a few minutes, they will "harass" their mother, drag her to throw the ball with her, or let her hold her to hang on the swing. After mom was interrupted several times, it was the last straw. She shouted, "Take you to play, and play by yourself. Can't you see that mom is busy? " The little girl burst into tears. Alas, it can be seen that working mothers are really helpless. I understand her very well. There must be something to do at work, but at the same time, I don't want to owe my children, and I want to take time to take my children out to play. So, I found time to work while playing, and wanted to kill two birds with one stone. I don't know that this will only be delayed at both ends, the children didn't play well, and the homework was probably not done well. (3) The time and energy of organizing people are always limited. Sometimes life seems so busy because we don't make reasonable arrangements. Make a plan for yourself in order of importance, so that you can have a plan. In the past, when I was young, my memory was amazing. I never forgot anything. Now I'm old, stupid and boring, hehe. But even when I have the best memory, I still have a habit of planning what I want to do in my notebook every day, especially writing down some key points, error-prone places and places that I pay special attention to. As the saying goes, "a good memory is not as good as a bad writing." Then, I will do it one by one in an orderly way, so that no matter how busy I am, I will not be confused or at a loss. By the way, looking at dozens of small books and hundreds of things that have been completed is also very fulfilling. Oh, ah q, hehe. Organization means efficiency! Many friends say that Ma Xiao is a person who loves life and enjoys it very much. Yes, that's right. If you think that everything you do is to complete a "task" or to achieve something, it will turn life into a "burden" and you will feel very tired. On the contrary, if you treat everything you do as a kind of "enjoyment", your mood will be much easier. For example, if you encounter difficulties at work, don't be nervous. What a good chance to improve yourself! Didn't you just learn something you didn't understand before? Don't worry when your family quarrels. You think it is more noble for people to open their hearts and speak frankly when the problems are exposed than to play tricks behind their backs. After the quarrel, it was still a family. ..... Facing the sunshine, you will never see the "shadow". Conclusion Men love mountains and rivers as well as beauty. Why can't women love their careers and their families? Career and family, the most perfect integration, is-love your career, just like love your "home"; At the same time, we also take the family as a great "cause" to run. For more articles on maternity, parenting, early education and parenthood, please enter the album "Pregnancy Experience". 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