Cultivating polite children can be guided by the following methods.

First of all, make an agreement in advance and clearly tell your child what to do.

Many parents are used to telling their children where to go at the moment they go out, and some even take their children directly without saying anything.

They know where they are going, what they are going to do, how to treat people on this occasion, and they habitually think that children also know.

Unexpectedly, I still know nothing about it. No matter from the lack of life experience or cognitive ability, children can't make accurate and clear judgments on many situations.

Parents know that this is a serious and solemn occasion and should sit quietly. But if you don't make it clear to your child in advance, your child won't understand.

If parents want their children not to run around, don't talk loudly, and tell them clearly and solemnly in advance what kind of greeting to use when they meet someone, they hope their children can achieve your desired goals through their own observation and the commands of "don't move" and "don't talk" issued from time to time, and the result will disappoint you.

Secondly, the church has correct and standardized etiquette.

On different occasions, how should children behave in accordance with etiquette norms. Parents may have a standard, but children don't.

Therefore, in addition to telling your child what to do in advance, you should also teach your child what you expect him to do. A good boy knows what to do in this situation and the right way. Parents should also prove that their children don't know anything.

Third, parents lead by example.

Children are parents' mirrors. Parents' usual words and deeds will exert a subtle influence on their children. If parents can't be polite and just ask their children to do that, the effect will definitely be greatly reduced.

As long as you put your heart into it, I believe you will cultivate a polite child.