Japanese mothers teach their children 1, and children learn to eat before 1.
Children learn to eat by themselves before they are one year old. In order to reduce the pollution to the dining table and floor, Japanese mothers cover their children with plastic rice sheets and spread newspapers under the chairs. In order to make it easier for them to catch food, sometimes small rice balls and vegetables cut into small pieces are prepared for them to learn to eat by themselves. There are always wet towels and napkins on the dining table. If children dirty the table themselves, they will immediately imitate adults to clean the table.
2. Wear one less than adults.
Japanese mothers think that children's body temperature is a little higher than that of adults, and their activities are large. If you wear too much, you will catch a cold when you sweat. In Japanese kindergartens, children are often seen wiping their bodies with dry towels on the playground in winter, while Japanese girls walking in the street are wearing knee-length skirts. In this way, they exercise in the cold winter and enhance their cold resistance.
3. Habit is more important than ranking.
Early education in Japan is not as rampant as in China. Many Japanese mothers think that the ranking of grades is not the most important, and they will pay more attention to the cultivation of their children's habits, which is what will benefit their children for life.
4. Treat housework as a game.
Generally, when Japanese families usually cook, children should help, such as putting broccoli, cutting vegetables, stirring and making noodles. Helping mothers pick vegetables and wash vegetables, these jobs are all playing games in the eyes of children, but they have increased their knowledge and cultivated the habit of loving labor since childhood.
5. Children know frugality from childhood.
Even if Japanese children have a lot of money in their pockets, they know that money is hard-won and not extravagant. Japanese children don't buy things casually. They try to avoid buying anything for themselves except gifts for friends. Once, in order to save the RMB around 7 yuan, a Japanese child went to a vending machine far away to buy what he needed, regardless of dissuasion.
6. Learn to be a master as soon as possible.
Some Japanese families, when their children are about ten years old, will find ways to let them take care of themselves, such as giving their children a week's living expenses, making them independently responsible for preparing a week's lunch for their families and buying food. In this process, children learned the plan of buying vegetables, learned to keep accounts, and learned how to make dishes better and more beautiful.
Japanese mothers 10 guidelines for educating children 0 1. You must greet the people you meet first, express your gratitude orally or in writing when you receive any favors and help from others, and apologize on the spot when you do something that causes trouble to others.
02. In public places (except places where you can play freely), the volume of speech should be controlled so that no third person can hear it.
You can only tell your mother what you don't want to tell your father. If you don't want to tell mom, you can tell dad. But you can't say neither.
04. Don't lie, or you will lose the most precious trust of your friends and family and make you regret it all your life.
If you can't avoid fighting, don't use tools and teeth, and don't poke your eyes. Besides, you can fight hard. Mom wants you to win.
06. You can pick up the dropped coins and take them home for accumulation, but you can't keep your wallet for yourself.
07. People really invite you to dinner. You can say you don't like it? I'm full? But never say? Gross? .
08. All food and things are alive. Never eat if you want, or throw it if you want.
09. Listen to the collective and authoritative opinions when necessary, but keep your own ideas in your heart.
10. Everyone is as different as his name and looks. There is no need to compare with others.
The warning for Japanese parents to educate their children is 1. Family is a school of habit, and parents are teachers of habit.
For the child's behavior, three of the five things are praise and two are criticism, and he will definitely develop in a good direction.
3. It is better to move him than to give him knowledge, and it is better to move him than to let him practice.
When teaching children to learn at the beginning, we must find him a teacher with good character. A teacher with wisdom, education and bad character cannot be an example for children to learn.
People who know the way of the world should educate their children not to lust after wine, sex and money.
When a person is over 20 years old, the opinions of parents and teachers are as ineffective as fertilizer applied after spring. Therefore, we should correct children's bad habits when they are young.
7. Friends have more influence than parents. Because the age and gender differences between parents and children restrict the influence of parents. The influence of friends is unlimited, especially spiritually. It can be seen how important it is for children to choose friends.
8. Children who cry grow up quickly. Children crying is a manifestation of self-desire. The stronger and healthier the child, the more he cries. Because crying is an exercise for him, it will increase his appetite and make him fall asleep when he is tired.
9. Even if you are beaten, it is a stick of your parents. Life is always hit at different stages, so it is very important to face the existence and strength of self-control against it. Children who have been beaten since childhood are used to being beaten since childhood and have the strength to maintain a normal mental state when they grow up.
10. Let the beloved children travel. The trip here is not sightseeing, but leaving home to work in a strange place. If people don't leave the protection of their parents and realize this hardship, they can't be tempered, let alone real happiness. If you really love children, you have to make them suffer. Otherwise, when the child grows up, it will be too late to regret it.
1 1. Love children, criticize them twice, praise them three times, and teach them five times to become talents.
12. The ultimate goal of education is that children can live independently and protectors can leave their children with peace of mind. Children should be allowed to think independently when they encounter problems. People's development is like going to a higher level. You can't learn anything at that stage without going up a step yourself.
13. Education is a very time-consuming job, and the effect of education will not be known until 10 or 20 years later.
14. Intellectual education and personality education are inseparable.