In China, unmarried infertility has always been a non-mainstream. After 95 and 00, you may marry late and have children late, and vote with your feet on a large scale, so it is difficult to say that you are unmarried and infertile.

However, the concept of unmarried infertility will become mainstream.

Young people in first-and second-tier cities are generally labeled as follows. After careful analysis, it seems that there is no need to get married and have children:

Either the economic pressure is great, and it is impossible to establish a foothold in first-and second-tier cities at present. Such people will basically not have children; Either economically acceptable, but these people often don't want to get married and have children, because this is likely to seriously affect their existing living standards; Either the economy is not a problem, but they are very concerned about their spiritual needs. Such people are indifferent to worldly things; Either they have strong economic strength, but these people are afraid of economic disputes caused by marriage.

We often expect a lot of things in life, but trying this thing may have some risks and side effects. When the risks and side effects are large enough, we would rather not try new things and shrink into our small but warm world.

Love and marriage are like this.

In fact, there are two mainstream values now. One is to marry high and marry high, which shows that we are not willing to suffer. In reality, you often encounter such an example: 150 girls like boys above 175, that is to say, they don't consider those below 175; But ask 175 boys who like girls over 160. And you asked that girls over 160 like boys over 180 ... but boys over 180 are very few after all. So you will find that Matthew effect is extremely obvious in the field of marriage and love. Both men and women are actually only interested in those few people. If you can't find a few high-quality people, you'd rather not find them.

Second, vigilance is very heavy, and mutual trust is very low. Some people worry about each other's domestic violence, some people worry about each other's bad temper, some people worry about each other's poor financial resources, some people worry about each other's excessive beauty, some people worry about the sky-high bride price, some people worry about married property ... Now first-and second-tier cities are strangers' models, and you know little about each other. This blind box model with serious information asymmetry has greatly affected everyone's yearning for marriage. Therefore, people who get married are often either classmates, have an emotional foundation, have a certain understanding, or have a reliable intermediary to match in a small scale, which also leads to a weak marketization of blind date.

Therefore, the overall environment of first-and second-tier cities now determines a low marriage rate and a high divorce rate. If children are involved again, a series of broken things such as taking children and cram schools will follow, and young people who care about their personal feelings in the new era will even stay away.