Didn't you think of that? When we think that children know nothing but eating, sleeping and crying, it is precisely the time when the baby's brain develops fastest! If parents can grasp this critical period, give frequent language stimulation and physical interaction, and promote brain development and cognitive development, then children's IQ can outperform the starting line. On the contrary, once you miss this period, you will have to work several times and never make up for it.
So, what should parents do is the most correct? Many parents, because they are busy with work and follow the trend, do not hesitate to "spend huge sums of money" to send their children to preschool classes for professional education. But the money spent, the effect is very general. The child is not only unhappy, but also has no obvious progress in all aspects.
The reason is actually very simple. Before the child is 3 years old, the most dependent and trusted people are parents. What they want most is for their parents to play with them, tell stories to themselves and let themselves be spoiled. Even if they criticize their mistakes, they are happy, because it shows that they have been fully valued by their parents. Teachers in early childhood classes are only familiar strangers to them at most.
Moreover, a 45-minute class every week is actually very short, which can't meet the daily needs of baby's intellectual development. Moreover, the teacher's energy is limited. When dealing with so many children in early childhood classes, one may not have time to take care of the individual differences of each baby.
Therefore, early education classes are not the best choice, and "quality companionship of parents" is the best early education for children.
Although, compared with early education institutions, parents' professionalism is slightly poor, and it is difficult to establish a complete early education system and teach children systematically, parents' scratching is actually more flexible, which can stimulate children's ability to "draw inferences from others" and is more suitable for children's intellectual development. Recommend the following three early education methods, pro-test is very useful, I hope it will help everyone!
Method 1: Look at the picture book.
Why do picture books sell so well in recent years? After all, parents find picture books very useful. For children who don't like brushing their teeth, Diary of a Moth tells their babies from a moth's perspective how eating sweets without brushing their teeth makes their teeth rot. A child who lacks self-confidence, piggy, the protagonist of I like myself, teaches her baby self-affirmation. Even if there are no friends around, she can have fun and make herself happy.
I believe that parents have this experience. Many things are difficult to communicate with your baby. The reason was told over and over again, but the bear just disagreed, refused to listen, and went his own way. But with picture books, picture books have built a bridge between parents and children, making it easier for children to get the meaning of their parents and communicate without barriers.
Recommend a set of picture books that I like very much: 2-6 bedtime enlightenment story books. Spend 5- 10 minutes every day and do parent-child reading before going to bed. Children are particularly happy, sleep better and have closer parent-child relationship. My daughter used to be a timid child. Since she started the parent-child reading of this picture book, she has become more sensible, and her old mother is very pleased.
Method 2: Make toys from local materials.
Nowadays, the goods are extremely rich, and children's toys are dazzling, which makes you overwhelmed. I also brush the toy hot list from time to time, and carefully select the toys of her age for my daughter, such as a light Manhattan ball, like a small maze, singing and dancing, a lovely robot, Lego, which is expensive and deeply loved by children, and so on. However, as children grow up, I find that the best toys are not provided by merchants, but creative works made from local materials.
For example, paint different pigments on the wheels of cars, roll them on white paper, and let the baby paint them with the wheels; With the basin as the drum and chopsticks as the key of the drum, this drum doll is more lively and interesting; It's actually more fun than plasticine to take the baby to make dough and let the baby pinch out different shapes with small hands.
The process of finding toys is also a process of parents and children thinking together, which is very interesting. Mothers who are obsessed with buying all kinds of big-name toys for their children should pay attention. Paper cups, tapes and mineral water bottles around you can be used as toys, and open play is more conducive to the development of baby's thinking ~
Method 3: Go out for a walk every day.
Increasing children's outdoor sports time is very beneficial to children's vision protection and physical development. Each of us is not an island, but a social person, and there will always be various intersections with others. Taking children out for a walk is actually guiding them to know this society and try to integrate into it. What they exercise and learn is the knowledge of the party.
For example, when waiting for traffic lights, you can teach your baby to know red parking spots and green lines; Taking the baby as a small wooden horse can guide the child to say hello to the conductor. Take the baby to buy bread, and the baby will have a general understanding of the mother's payment by mobile phone. These personal experiences and social practices are not available in early education classes, but they are very practical.
At the same time, children are exposed to sunlight and wind, and various senses of the body are stimulated to a certain extent, which is also very beneficial to improve the baby's physical resistance. The scope of home is limited. It is good exercise to see how wonderful the outside world is.
I quite agree with the sentence "Love is a verb". Accompanying children requires us to practice and constantly explore better ways and means. This process makes us feel more value and responsibility as parents, which is actually a kind of growth for us. As the child grows up, he is actually getting farther and farther away from us, and the closest contact with us is the period of 0-3 years old. Grasping this critical period of the baby's intellectual development is also the golden period of grasping our closest relationship with the baby. The above is my sharing. How do my dear readers play with their babies? Come and share it with everyone in the comments section!
# My parents grew up in the early morning #