Children are born without order, and a sense of order is cultivated.
If parents want their children to enter their orderly life, they must first enter his disorderly life, giving them whatever they want and when. When the child is satisfied, he opens his eyes to see the world, pricks up his ears to listen to the movement, and opens his mouth to express that when the child establishes a relationship with his parents, it is time for him to experience and feel the orderly life of his parents.
Some people may say that when the children are young, the family will be chaotic. It's not too late to pay attention when the children grow up and understand. The person who said this must be someone who is not responsible for life. People's character and habits are not formed in a day or two. People's personality and habits are unconsciously formed, and once formed, it is difficult to change. The child is still young, seemingly ignorant, and everything he says and does is arbitrary, but his brain; In fact, children's growth is coded, organized and regular. The younger children are, the more difficult it is to decipher the code of their growth. If parents neglect the transformation of the environment and their own image, children will be born in disorderly families, grow up in disorderly families and gradually become disorderly people. When children grow up, they have certain habits of thinking and behavior. Parents will transform the environment, transform themselves, and then transform their children, but what is done is done. No matter how they reform, it's all in vain.
A child was born in a beautiful and tidy home. He loves cleanliness and pays attention to hygiene since childhood. He will instinctively refuse the dirty environment and refuse to be a dirty and untidy person. Children have a regular life since childhood, and when to eat and sleep, when to "work" and study, and when to play and relax are relatively fixed. Children know what to do when they are young, and naturally they will know what to do when they grow up. How children interact with friends when they are young and how they will interact with colleagues and friends when they grow up. The same people, the metropolis follows the same life and lifestyle. This is why children should live in an orderly environment from an early age.
An orderly environment is related to money, but it has little to do with it. Those who have a family of three crowded into a small room of more than ten square meters can keep their homes in good order and make people happy to get close; People who live in big houses may also make their homes messy and inaccessible. "Parents create a family environment, and the family environment determines the habits and destiny of children." Although this statement is a bit extreme, it is not unreasonable. Cross-strait early education experts advise parents: Usually, the home layout should be clean and tidy, the children's logic will be clear, fixed items should be placed in a fixed position, and more communication with children should be made to help the baby develop a sense of order and security.