Everyone praised her mother's practice, and netizens commented: It's right to listen to her.
This is true, but everything my mother says in life is not necessarily right.
My student Tian Tian has just turned four. Before each class, her mother would tell her: Teacher, if Tian Tian eats her hand in class, remember to remind her for me. If it really doesn't work, just hit her little hand.
There are also parents who stare at threats directly outside the classroom. If you eat your hands again, you will chop off your fingers.
Children don't eat their hands for no reason. They have an appetite sensitive period in infancy and are particularly interested in eating and biting. However, parents say "Baby, don't eat your hands" will delay your child's oral satisfaction, and later there will be the phenomenon of eating your hands, biting your nails and biting your lips.
This is what happens when children listen to their mothers when they are young.
Today, the founder of an early education brand told the story of her daughter. The child's father is a headmaster in Tsinghua. Once, when a child was eating, he repeatedly threw food five times. Suddenly, the headmaster lost his temper and locked the child in a dark room.
The mother who just came home analyzed with her father that it is a space sensitive period for children to throw things. Before the age of 2, children have no concept of criticism. You accidentally hit her little hand, she thought it was playing with her, and then she learned to hit people.
Zhou said: if a person can't even enlighten his own children, but drag them into his own track, it's really hopeless.
Many times, we are educating our children with our own cognition. It is wrong to eat our hands and throw things. I don't know if your words hurt the children.
There is a children's song "Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey, hey!"
"Dad bo bo all day.
Son, son, you have to be obedient.
Mom has been cooing all day.
I did everything for you.
If I listen to you,
How can I be better than you? "
That's right. If I listen to you, how can I be better than you? It is a misunderstanding of many parents to expect their children to be obedient.
Educator Cai Peiyuan said: The art of education is not imparting, but enlightening and awakening.
Those children who listen to their mothers may grow up to be ordinary. I have been used to listening to my mother since I was a child. I have no opinion and dare not challenge.
Are you such a mother?