1. Young people are under great economic pressure.
For most men, economy must be the premise for young people to get married and the foundation for building a new family. Therefore, they hope to fight for their career when they are young and dare to propose to their beloved woman after they have a certain economic foundation.
Of course, in addition, many men need to own their own houses and cars. Without these material conditions, they will not have enough confidence to propose to the woman they love, so young men are under great economic pressure.
Especially in some places that pay more attention to bride price, many men often worry about the money of bride price, and even worry about the livelihood of their families after marriage.
The cost of the wedding is not discussed for the time being. After marriage, they not only have to worry about the miscellaneous chores of rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, but also have children, and the milk powder money and various expenses of early education classes will follow.
If you can't prepare for all the unknowns in the future before marriage, you will have a headache for the word money after marriage. So this kind of pressure will make men don't want to get married, dare not fall in love easily, and dare not get married easily.
2. Modern women are very independent.
Nowadays, women are becoming more and more independent, which is completely different from the girls of the previous era. Women in those days hoped to change their lives by marrying a good man and starting a beautiful marriage.
Now, in this era, women choose to be what they want to be and begin to struggle for their careers and dreams. They are no longer the brains of love and no longer rely on marriage to spend their lives.
In other words, women nowadays are very Buddhist. Even in the face of parents and relatives urging marriage, they still maintained their persistence. If you can't meet a suitable lover, you'd rather be single than spend the rest of your life with an unsuitable person.
Moreover, they have enough ability to support themselves and give themselves all good things, even if they are alone, they will be particularly happy, so more and more young women are beginning to reject marriage.
I haven't met the right lover yet.
Marriage is a major event in life. Only by finding someone who really suits you can you feel the taste of happiness in the next journey.
So the reason why many young people don't get married is that they haven't met a good person, but when they meet someone they really like and are suitable for, they naturally want to marry each other.
If you get married just for the sake of getting married, you won't feel lucky when you meet someone you don't like. Therefore, even if you have more time, you should find someone you really like to spend the rest of your life with.
This is also the idea of many contemporary young people, so they don't want to get married, and they don't want to see their parents and relatives introduce blind dates. Because they just want to marry someone they really like and live a limited life, they don't want to get married.