Pua literally means hitting on artists. In the early days, Pua only shared how men approached and accosted their favorite people through the application of skills and psychology, but later it became a means of self-interest and controlling each other's emotions to meet their own needs.
In the eyes of pua men, love is no longer the most beautiful and pure emotion, but a means to use and obtain other wealth. In their eyes, women are no longer independent people, but are similar to commodities that can be judged.
So how do these people cheat women's feelings? They often pretend to be prodigals, successful emperors and romantic poets, and slowly destroy a woman's independence with all kinds of emotional traps and routines, making her more and more dependent on pua men, gradually letting her fall into the trap and drain her value, and then continue to look for the next goal.
It's not just feelings, they even put their hands into women's wallets, wrapped themselves up more perfectly with money, and made the next target believe his words more.
So how did they implement the specific steps?
First, create exquisite and considerate character designs, such as the designs of emperors, prodigals and poets.
Second, overthrow your own image to gain sympathy, and use contrast to gain women's favor.
Third, establish a contract until the relationship is determined.
Fourth, tear up the contract, begin to reveal the true colors, and give a mental blow to women.
Fifth, emotional abuse, suicide encouragement, and then find the next goal.
People can feel the murder and tears of countless innocent women from these five simple steps. At the beginning, pua was just to pursue the woman you like, but now it has become an illegal act of cheating money, cheating color and even hurting people's lives.
But with the passage of time, pua no longer exists only in emotions, and even spreads to the workplace, becoming a pua in the workplace and a way for bosses to suppress subordinates. In the face of pua, we must not be soft-hearted. If someone wants to pua you, don't be fooled easily. One side controls the other's personality, character and temper. Including your inner world.
He makes you feel bad by hitting your self-confidence. It's hard to feel that only he loves you so much, and it's hard to feel that he still loves you so much, making you feel that he loves you the most, making you feel that I am so ugly and he still loves me so much. Only he is true love. Keep hitting your confidence. Long-term control will make you worse and worse. You must hold on to him. He enjoys your abuse and worship at the same time. To satisfy his selfish desires. He is purely male chauvinism, deeply inferior, and can't accept that the woman is stronger than himself, thus suppressing her. for reference only