Today's full-time kindergartens or full-time classes have richer contents in educating children: Montessori education, bilingual education, music education ... All kinds of distinctive educational forms attract parents' attention and give them more time. "All-inclusive" care can relieve some worries of parents, and even let many busy parents temporarily relieve their pressure.
However, children can't see their parents for a few days, and the pressure on their young minds can be imagined, although the children themselves may not be able to express themselves clearly. Faced with the contradiction between self-development and child-rearing, some parents repeatedly weigh whether to send their children to day care or full-time care, and their inner balance is constantly swinging.
Why do parents send their children to full-time care?
Parents are busy with work.
Ms. Gao, who works in a foreign company, finally made up her mind to send her children to a full-time kindergarten with complete facilities and good reputation. "There is really no way. I also know that children need the care of their parents most when they are 3 or 4 years old. But his father and I work in the same foreign company. We go to work early every day and often have to work overtime at night. We really don't have more energy and time to spend with our children. Instead of looking for a nanny to take care of him, it is better to go to a reputable full-time kindergarten and let him receive a quality education. It's just that whenever I send my children to kindergarten on Monday, I always feel guilty when I see my son's reluctance. "
The child is too naughty.
The reason why a pair of doctoral parents send their children to full-time care without hesitation is simple: "The child is very smart. He just learned a lot of Chinese characters when he was two years old, but he was too naughty. " When the children were playing with their parents during the "Eleventh" holiday, the doctor's father was "unbearable" and said to the children, "You have tortured me enough these two days. I'd rather carry a sack 100 Jin than look at you. It's really tiring. After the holiday, be sure to send you back to full care and let the teacher take care of you! "
The elders like it too much.
Johnny, who lives in Xicheng District, was sent to full-time kindergarten by his mother in tears. "Xiao Di is the only grandson of grandpa's family, and his grandparents are extremely fond of him. When it's time to take care of children, there are always grandparents to protect them, and children are becoming more and more willful. Teachers in kindergarten say Didi is too spoiled to get along with children. So I discussed with his father to send the child to a full-time kindergarten, leave the love of grandparents, let him live in groups, get along with the children more, and get rid of his bad habits. "
The child wants to be with his mother.
A teacher in charge of boarding classes in the third kindergarten of Beijing Municipal Health Bureau said: "I think the children now are too pitiful. Some children 1 year-old are sent to boarding kindergartens by their parents. At this time, what they need most is their parents. Even the best kindergartens have no special teachers to replace them. "
"I don't like full-time kindergartens at all. How comfortable it is at home, you can watch TV and eat many delicious snacks, but not in kindergarten; Also, I can't see my mother every day, and I can't hear my mother telling stories and sleeping. " Jingjing, who is over 4 years old, has only been in full-time care for 2 months and will never go again. Her mother had no choice but to transfer her to day care kindergarten.