Xiao Qin's anxiety should have been experienced by many treasure mothers. Parents want their children to be popular and loved outside, so they don't have to worry about their friends. Or if the children can get the teacher's love and get more care and care, then parents will be more at ease.
What are the characteristics of popular children in kindergartens?
First of all, a polite child
Although teachers are professionally trained and treat all children equally, they will definitely prefer polite children and swearing children and pay more attention to them.
Not only teachers, but also polite children will be very popular with classmates. Children are ready to help others. When they are helped, they will say "thank you" sweetly, and they will know to admit their mistakes and say "sorry" when they do something wrong. These are very valuable qualities that many adults can't do until now!
Second, confident and lively children
If a child is self-abased and introverted, even if he is kind and polite, he will be easily overlooked and won't have many friends. Most confident and lively children have high EQ and can play with most people, even "king of the children", followed by a group of kids, without worrying about whether he will have friends to play with.
Children's self-confidence comes from their parents' companionship and encouragement, and their sense of accomplishment after completing things. Ordinary parents should pay more attention to cultivating their children's self-confidence and make him a warm and lively person, rather than an introverted "lone ranger".
Third, children who are not overbearing.
Some children are spoiled at home and can't change when they go to kindergarten. They think it's not good for everyone to bully others around him. As long as you like toys, you will be robbed to play, which makes kindergarten children go to the teacher to complain. Not only does the little friend dislike him, but the teacher should frown when he sees it.
When a child goes to kindergarten at the age of three, his parents can reason with him and set rules for him, so that he can become a person who abides by the rules, not a selfish person.
What kind of child are you?
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