Childhood. Children exist not only in a material form, but also in a spiritual form, which provides a powerful source of power for human discovery. The spirit of children determines the course of human development. The subconscious is a huge undeveloped realization. Childhood psychological trauma is long-lasting and slow, but no one realizes that these trauma is the potential cause of mental illness in adulthood. Whether treating physical or mental diseases, we should take into account the special experiences of patients in childhood. The diseases left over from childhood are the most serious and the most difficult to cure! )
Because children are isolated from society, when a child is influenced by adults, he becomes a special adult, and his behavior will be similar to that of his closest people. These adults who can influence children are usually their parents or teachers. Adults still can't understand children, so there are still problems of communication and conflict between them. Therefore, adults must stand in a completely different angle and realize their unintentional mistakes, which will hinder them from truly understanding children. Adults will gradually become selfish and self-centered in the process of getting along with children.
New life has an instinct. Only children can reveal the mystery of human development. Children's development seems spontaneous, but in fact it follows specific laws. Because children are as delicate as all young lives, their hearts also need care. Just as nature provides material preparation for protecting embryos, children need to be placed in an environment that can care for them.
What help can parents provide for their children?
The father should provide a cell that we can't observe with the naked eye-sperm, and the mother should not only provide another cell-egg, but also provide a living environment for the fertilized egg-uterus, so that it can eventually grow into a real child. Many people think that parents have created their own children. This understanding is incorrect. On the contrary, we should say, "It is the baby that gives birth to parents."
The secret of children's development. Children's sensitive period has a special inner vitality, which can be naturally absorbed and learned in an amazing way. When children's sensitivity is disturbed and hindered by the outside world, they will feel depressed or angry. Children have a very strong creative instinct in sensitive period. This instinct has an amazing influence on children. If this instinct is destroyed, it may be that the child becomes weak and lacks vitality.
The first instinct given by nature is sensitivity related to order, which is like giving human a compass to adapt human society to the world. Human intelligence did not fall from the sky, but was built in a sensitive period.
Children need to manage a very important and mysterious period in which they are extremely sensitive to order. Children's sensitivity to order shows up one month after birth. Children will feel excited and happy when they see something in the right place.
Losing your temper may be caused by order sensitivity, and it will be more obvious when it is blocked. In most cases, the child's temper may be caused by this sensitivity. A sense of continuity is a spiritual need. When it is satisfied, it will also bring happiness to children.