Many women have children after marriage. After weaning, they will choose to go out to work and entrust their children to their mother-in-law or grandparents. In fact, this phenomenon is very common in the real society. Nowadays, social prices are very high-tech and developed. Without money, they can't stand in society. So many women will choose to work after weaning their children. As we all know, if you choose to work, you can't accompany your children or work with them. I have to say that this society has very high requirements for women.
Personally, it is better to take care of the children by yourself. After all, children were born in October, and every child needs the company of his parents when he grows up. As a parent, I don't want to take measures for every process of children's growth. I hope that parents exist in every world of children, so that the children will be relatively sound and mentally healthy when they grow up, and women can wait until their children go to kindergarten before choosing to go out to work.
If children are left to the elderly, there will be many different opinions on education. There will be a generation gap between us and the elderly, no matter what children eat and drink, especially in their education. This is not only beneficial to the growth of children, but also affects the feelings between adults. Children don't want to grow up in such a family, so I personally suggest that children take care of themselves. Parents are the first guardians of their children, so parents are responsible for their children's growth.