Why do excellent children belong to other people's families? In fact, it is caused by parents' psychological deviation. Looking at the ridge, the side becomes a mountain peak. Parents look at their children from different perspectives and get different results. In other words, it is often said that wearing colored glasses to see children, the more you love, the more angry you are, and the more you like to see other people's children. If the eyes infinitely magnify the child's bad, it is equivalent to automatically labeling the child with colored labels, subconsciously shielding the child's advantages. Actually, it's unfair to children.

1, take educating children as an important thing, even your own career.

2. Pay attention to early education: children's early education must be done well, which is equivalent to the foundation. If children have good habits, correct values and enough knowledge accumulation from an early age, then their future study will become much smoother.

3. Pay attention to self-study: a master learner must have the ability of self-study, so learn early and skillfully to win time; At the same time, grasp the whole and resolve the parts; Grasp the key points and win the backbone; Develop advantages, develop interests and so on.

4, determination: children have ambitions, which is equivalent to having a navigator, which can drive children to the road of learning.

5, sharpen the child's character: use stories or movies to infiltrate the spirit of hard work into the child's heart, so that children can develop an indomitable character.

The main points of family education:

1, there are rules: don't indulge children, follow principles and let children know where the boundaries are.

2. Make the family full of love. Only children are willing to accept the guidance of adults, such communication is the smoothest.

3. The concept of family education must be unified. Only when the direction is unified, the growth of children will always move forward.

The continuous growth of parents is the driving force for children's continuous progress.

However, on the other hand, this society is so realistic. There are differences between people. On the issue of educating children, the differences between children are also natural.

Whether a child is excellent or not, family education and family atmosphere are the most critical factors. How much parents pay, how much they get naturally. Don't pay too much attention to other people's children, but also look at the advantages of your own children and pay more attention to their growth. Contrast will always leave harm, not only to parents, but also to children.