If you want to go, you must. He only needs you for three or four years. Three or four years later, you think it's nothing to sacrifice, and you still think that my mother will be at home, other mothers will be beautiful, and my mother will work decently. My mother is nothing. Nurseries and early education centers can be seen everywhere. It is not a problem to spend money to solve the problem. You have to believe that as your ability grows, your income will only get higher and higher.
At that time, the children were all one year old and could be looked after by a nanny or a client. There is no need to give up their career. Children only need adults to look after them for three to five years, and their careers are not tired. Finally, children are proud that you have a job. He doesn't want to be asked by his classmates what his mother does in the future, and he can't answer it.
It's easy to open your mouth, but difficult to cultivate!
On a cool summer night, several little girls in our community played games together.
Guoguo said, "Let's play emergency! I took the case ... "
Huahua said, "I don't like to see a doctor. An injection will hurt. Let's have a class. Listen to my lecture. "
Hong Hong said, "I'll learn a court session for you. Do you know how to hold a court session? "
Mimi looked at them and said nothing.
In fact, Mimi is better dressed than all of them. Mimi's braids are particularly beautiful. Especially complicated braids are combed by my mother every morning. The hair of fruit is short. Huahua's long hair is combed by herself. Tie them one by one, and it will be fine. ...
Huahua mother said. If you want to have long hair, you have to comb it yourself. Children in kindergarten classes should master this skill!
Looking for hedgehogs everywhere. "I saw a little hedgehog the other day!"
Mimi's mother exclaimed, "Mommy, your daughter touched the ground."
Guoguoma sat on one side, surfing the Internet with a notebook. Without looking up, he said, "Just go home and take a bath!"
Red and Huahua can't find their parents. Because one is not off work and the other is eating! Both mothers think that children can play by themselves as long as they don't leave the yard.
A few days ago, Guoguo fell on his bike. ...
I endured the pain and went home It is said that mother Guoguo just looked at it and said, "Dad, please deal with it ..." Also, an organ transplant doctor saw a scratch and saw sesame seeds selling watermelons!
The image of these working mothers is different from that of full-time mothers. Stay-at-home mothers have exquisite makeup, which can't be seen in them. They just washed their faces, probably cleaned up and went to work. It is common to call back for breakfast while driving. I've seen it. Just like acrobatics!
Their children are different from those brought up by stay-at-home mothers!
The admiration of working mothers is enterprising in the workplace. In children's world, it is an exhibition competition. Some children are really enterprising. Xiao Honghua lacks a Man Qin, so she wipes her tears. Just like their mother, I feel bad about my job title!
The daughter of a stay-at-home mother eats and wears. What? Where is the cake delicious? Which hotel has more advanced afternoon tea, and all the girls are in love!
Because mom likes to live like this. Husband is doing business and his family conditions are good. She likes to take her daughter out beautifully.
Mimi's mother said that her daughter only eats cakes from "Hollyland Black Swan Series". I can't give anything else. You can eat it as soon as you eat it.
Mimi also pointed out that Princess Guoguo dress is not authentic Disney. Disney's authentic Snow White dress is two layers!
Guoguo asked her mother, "What is real?"
Mother Guoguo said, "It's just a skirt. Mom can't see it, it doesn't matter! "
One more thing, Mimi, a first-grade elementary school student, asked her mother, "Why don't you have a job?" The teacher said let's fill in mom and dad's homework. Mom, if you didn't, what did you do? "
One day, I asked Mimi, "What do you want to be when you grow up?"
Mimi said, "I want to be like my mother." It's beautiful. Stay at home and be a big princess. Mom said, I am a little princess. Then marry a good husband. A good husband like my father. That kind of business, he only pampers me! "
I'm panting!
That's terrible! Does anyone think that the future that the little girl is looking forward to is to marry a good husband and pamper him? This was an idea a hundred years ago. The later, the more impossible it is!
Because, we women must pay attention to that whether you like it or not, gender equality is the mainstream! It's irreversible
There are fewer and fewer men who are willing to raise and spoil their wives in the future! It is too risky to pin your future on marrying a good man! It's out of control! The risk is extremely high!
The little girl is only in the first grade. How could she have such a dangerous idea?
This is closely related to the happy mother of her stay-at-home wife. The mother's state is like this, and the child can't help copying.
What about the fruit?
What do you want to do in the future?
The answer to the same question is: "I want to do clinical work." To be a pediatrician! I want to help sick children! Make them all healthy. "
On the invisible starting line, Guoguo has begun to lead. ...
Isn't it?
Where's father? Are you willing to give up your job? Or the mother gives up her job, and the father lets the child take the mother's surname in exchange for the child's mother's contribution. Is father willing? Don't kidnap mother morally, mother has no future, and children dare not even think about it!
I don't understand people who quit their jobs to look after their children. Hire a nanny with your salary, and you can go to kindergarten in two years at most. Which is more important does not need to be measured at all. Children will not appreciate you when they grow up, but will dislike the mother of a housewife who has nothing to do with her career. I don't know how to calculate this account for short-term difficulties and giving up long-term interests.
I also quit my job as a teacher because I took care of the children. As soon as I resigned, several relatives from my teacher's family came to sign me up. At that time, my mood was old and uncomfortable. I want my mother-in-law to help me, but unfortunately, she doesn't want to. My mother is ill. I can't stand it. Finally, my director said that you didn't want me to let you kill your children. Now, she says that women can only engage in jobs with a good life, especially decent teachers. I married my husband at that time, and my husband's family was so happy to get married when they saw that I was a teacher. The old people were looking forward to having children, but why can they only bring them by themselves after giving birth? The old people will say that you spent my son's money to eat my son? I asked my son to find a younger and more beautiful one. At that time, I wanted to die! Talking too much is all tears! Now that my children are in school, I want to find a job, but after eight years, the streets are full of college students. I'm an cheating nanny. Nobody wants me. I don't have the ability to earn money, and I am slowly getting wrinkles and getting sick! I can't find the direction and I don't know what to do. I want to earn money and set a good example for my son? I also want to wear a skirt with 100 yuan? But, but but. ...
Having a job is a lifetime thing. The child is one year old. Try to hire a nanny and take it for another two years before you can go to kindergarten. Only when a woman has a job and her own career can she stand on her own feet, better reflect her own value and gain the respect of others. Be a stay-at-home wife, and you will regret it when the children grow up.
I won't give up, because I take care of my children alone and never give up my job.
My husband is a soldier, and we live separately. He came back one day in two weeks, and the children didn't know him.
Less than a week after his child was born, he went to Chongqing Institute of Logistics Engineering to study for two years. I only go home for a few days in winter vacation, which is my hardest two years. I am holding 1 1 month-old daughter. It takes more than half an hour to get to the unit and send it to the nursery. Later, I got a house, still halfway up the mountain. I spend Spring Festival and Mid-Autumn Festival alone with my daughter on my back. Until my husband jumped ship, I took my daughter alone 1 0 years. Although bitter, it is also sweet. I won't leave any regrets for myself. ...
My colleague gave birth to two precious sons, and no one looked at them. He hired a nanny and went to work every day. Dabao is 4 years old and Bauer is 2 years old. Her husband was young, her father died, and she was raised by her aunt. Little colleague's mother didn't retire. Their young husband and wife take good care of their children. The eldest son went to kindergarten, and the younger son was still taken care of by the nanny. ...
Sometimes, I miss it and I can't get it back. I think it's better not to give up your job when you have children. It's better to rely on yourself than anyone else. You'd better make the right choice, don't give up, think twice before you act. ...
To be honest, I don't want to give up my job to take care of my children. ...
Nobody really took it. It's not a problem to find a reliable aunt for 8 hours a day, but have you given up your job? There will be many consequences. ...
For example, both my colleagues and my husband came to Shanghai to work hard. Soon after buying a house, their child was born. Without the help of the elderly on both sides, I found a local aunt in the same community to take care of. I take care of them for 8 hours a day, and I am very tired. Now I am in primary school, and I have an establishment and a Shanghai hukou. It's really hard when I'm bitter, but what if I pay my aunt to take care of them and I give up? Where is the account going to come from?
Women should not give up their jobs easily, especially this job is better and the income is not bad. In the future, when their children are older, they will be proud to have such a mother when they see that her mother is beautiful and can make money. Taking care of her children full-time can only touch them.
Of course, each family has its own difficulties. If you turn on your own lights, you can't put out others' lights. Since ancient times, women have always paid a lot and been sad all over the place. I hope you will be happy. ...