Attitude determines everything is Carnegie's famous saying, which is equally effective in children's education. Attitude gives children an extremely valuable growth environment, and parents' attitude determines the happiness and sense of value of the next generation, not how high they are. Around us, it is not difficult to find that many parents have high academic qualifications and good methods, but these are not so powerful in front of attitude. This is because parents' "attitude" attitude and action are linked, and what kind of attitude parents have will have towards their children. A good attitude between parents and children will cherish each other and will not have ideas for each other.
A first-grade child comes home from school. He doesn't want to do his homework. Mother ordered the children to do their homework when they came home from work. The children say I don't want to write yet, but I want to play. Later, my mother came out of the kitchen and found that the child had not done his homework. Mom said angrily, you should do my homework right away, and the child said, no, I have a party. Mom said, I'll tell you what, if you don't do your homework again, see how I tidy up you, and then yell away. Half an hour later, the child is still the same.
Another child doesn't want to do his homework when he comes home. But his mother didn't ask him to do it at once, but promised him to play for 20 minutes first. After the child played 10 minutes, the mother came out of the kitchen to remind the child that there were still 10 minutes to do homework. Twenty minutes later, the mother found the child still playing. The mother asked the child to stop at once. The child said, "Mom, wait, I'll do my homework after I assemble my toys." Mom agreed. After the child finished writing, the mother took the child by the hand and came to the desk to let the child choose which homework to write first.
If the attitude of the first mother does not change, it will become more and more difficult for her to communicate with her children, and her trust will become less and less. Children will not only do things according to their mothers' instructions, but even deliberately resist their mothers. Although the second mother didn't let the children get into the habit of doing homework actively for the time being, there is no obstacle to communication between the mother and the children, and the mother is cultivating the initiative and autonomy of the children. A good attitude breeds a good method.
Back to the topic, what parents should do is a successful early education. I think parents' attitude towards the world and things is the best education for their children.