The three views of both sides should be consistent with the truth learned after marriage. There is a saying that it is easy to fall in love because of the five senses; Because of the three views, it is not easy to get along. Therefore, when you are in love, you should still look at whether the outlook on life, values and consumption of both sides are consistent, and then consider getting married. Getting married means building a new family, and the most important thing for a family is communication. If the husband and wife have different views, communication will easily lead to contradictions, and the marriage boat will turn over. So, people who have been there say, find someone! In particular, the marriage partner must find an object that is consistent with the three views. The three views are consistent, which makes you more comfortable to get along with and won't make you explode in minutes.

I didn't understand the truth until I got married. The economic foundation determines everything. Some netizens commented, "I didn't know that RMB is not a simple number until I got married ..." After getting married, you will find that the speed of making money often can't keep up with the speed of spending money, especially after having children, which is simply the rhythm of burning money. Milk powder money, diapers money, early education classes, study classes, the more you go, the bigger the pit. Therefore, people who have been there will tell you earnestly, don't treat money like dirt, and you will know after you get married. It is best to find a marriage partner with economic foundation; It doesn't matter if you don't, then two people work together, have the concept of financial management and rational consumption. At least not after marriage, but not as those who have been poor together know.

I didn't understand until I got married. Marriage is a matter for two families. There is a saying that "falling in love is a matter for two people, and marriage is a matter for two families." Don't say, this statement has some truth. After getting married, they have to face two family matters. After marriage, men always say, "It was not easy for my mother to raise me. You should be nice to my mother in the future." But how many men will say to their mother, "Mom, it is not easy for my wife to come to our house without parents. You should be kind to her in the future." Not to mention the mother-in-law relationship. Different living habits and concepts of two families collide with different sparks, so people who have experienced it will say, get married? Then you have to be prepared. You should try to accept each other's family, try to integrate into each other's family life, and don't naively think that marriage is just the life of the two of you.

I didn't understand the truth until I got married. Understanding tolerance is more important than beauty. I always want to find a handsome (beautiful) object when I am in love, but I find that handsome (beautiful) can't be eaten and lived. But no matter how strong the feelings are, no matter how beautiful the skin is, it will also be attributed to the fireworks of life. The daily life of rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea needs mutual tolerance, understanding and communication, and life will be complete. Therefore, people who have experienced it will tell you that the most important thing for two people to get married together is to tolerate and understand each other and get along comfortably and harmoniously. As for appearance, it really doesn't matter.

There are many reasons to understand after marriage, but the point is not this, but whether you are ready for marriage, how to be a good husband (wife), enjoy the happiness and happiness brought by marriage, and accept the responsibilities and obligations brought by marriage.