Every day, I will see parents who come to pick up their children, grandmothers who wait for their children in advance, and mothers who come to pick up their children in a hurry every day ... In short, there are three main types of people who pick up their children.
The first category: grandma often answers, indicating that both parents are dual-employed, and the elderly help with the children. This kind of children account for a large part. As many mothers said, we also want to take care of our children, but we have to go out to earn money, so there is no job to leave school at the age of three or four. Therefore, the parents of such children are usually busy with work and the elderly bring a lot, which also shows that the family atmosphere is very harmonious and there are not many contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. But it doesn't rule out the kind where mom gives birth to grandma. Since childhood, children have been brought up by grandmothers, and most of these children are not as good as those brought up by their parents.
The second category: mothers often answer, mostly full-time mothers, or mothers are in charge of children's education. It is inevitable that many mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are at odds. There is no one to take care of the children at home, so we can only sacrifice our mother, either to be a full-time mother or to find a job with relatively free time to take care of the children. I am the latter. It is really hard to take care of the baby full-time or while working, but such a mother will make sacrifices for her children and family, pay more attention to her children's education, and her children will be better in education.
The third category: fathers often pick up and drop off their children, which shows that their family atmosphere is better. I have to say that there are too many "widowed" families around me. My best friend, we played with children since childhood. I have never met the father of the child, let alone the father who picked up the child. Many dads will be "shop assistants" even if they have time, because this society seems to regard picking up and dropping off children as a woman's exclusive task. Whether it is picking up children from school or accompanying them to early education classes, I rarely see my father. If there are so many, they will become "model husbands" in the eyes of others. Don't say that the father who can often pick up his children is because he has time. Many dads have time not to pick up their children. The father who can really pick up the children must have time to integrate into the family and must be a responsible father. Such a child's family atmosphere will certainly not be bad.
However, of course, in real life, most children leave school too early, and working parents can't pick them up, but in any case, parents must spend more time with their children and do it themselves.