When educating their children, parents should educate their children with correct and reasonable love, not too harsh, not to beat and scold their children; You can't be proud of your children. These two extreme ways are not conducive to the growth of children. When educating children, we should point out their mistakes in time and let them correct them. For example, if a child hits someone, parents can't say, "My child is really energetic!" This is a sign of misleading and conniving children. Many grandparents have this situation. If the child is wrong, he is wrong.
Parents should have a good attitude when educating their children.
Parents should maintain a good attitude when educating their children, mainly because they are contented and have "high standards and low requirements" for their children. After all, it is a child. It is good if children make even a little progress. For example, it is very difficult for children to tidy their rooms. If the child can fold several clothes, parents should encourage the child, but be specific, such as "your folded clothes are really good, keep working hard", and don't say "you are really great" in general.
3. Guide children to behave well by playing games.
Children like role-playing. If children don't eat well, parents can guide them to eat by playing games. For example, take the children's bowls and chopsticks, let the children put them neatly, and then the parents put the tableware in turn, let the children arrange the performance, and the children will cooperate very much. But it's time to eat, and the children can't play endlessly. Parents can talk it over with their children and play games after dinner.
4. The time to punish children should be short.
When a child makes a mistake, the punishment time for the child at this stage should not be too long, otherwise it will lead to some negative effects. For example, the child always throws peels and scraps of paper on the floor. In order to punish the child, parents should let him sweep the floor and pay attention to cleaning for a few minutes. Don't take too long, otherwise children will feel insecure and lack understanding of their parents.
5. Treat children's lies and deception calmly.
It is normal for children aged 3 or 4 to lie. Parents should deal with it calmly, don't lose their temper, or feel incredible. Parents might as well tell their children some stories, such as the classic story of the wolf coming, to let them know the disadvantages of lying. Through story education, children are greatly touched. When telling a story, be emotional and make it easy for children to understand.
6. Parents should pay attention to the crying problem of children of this age.
3, 4-year-old baby's crying is often purposeful, such as missing mom, eating a snack, going somewhere to play, and so on. Parents should pay attention not to pay too much attention when their children are crying, and don't have obvious different reactions from usual. Otherwise, children will cry more and more, and they will never stop until they reach their goals.
On the contrary, if parents pretend to be okay and go about their own business, children will get bored when they cry for a while, then stop crying slowly, and then rarely pretend to cry to meet their own needs.
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The latest parenting concept, good at encouraging babies.
1, often say to children: "You are smart", he (she) is really smart.
As long as parents think their children are promising, they will. This is the famous educator's piggy Marion effect.
Arbitrarily scolding and beating a child will make him lose his thinking ability.
A family without laughter can't raise a child with a good brain.
Giving children a space to be alone can cultivate children's habit of thinking.
6. When a child solves a difficult problem, don't just point out his mistakes, but acknowledge and praise what he did right.
7. Some people say that the process of children's growth is also the process of parents shaping themselves. This is not unreasonable. Parents should get used to growing up with their children.
8. Letting children do more can train their minds.
9. forbidding children to talk to themselves is tantamount to forcing them to give up thinking.
10, parents should frankly express their surprise for their children's "new discovery".
1 1, let children walk freely, which is beneficial to the development of mind.
12. "Playing a role" can enhance children's imagination. Let's play games with the children.
If children dance, taste, touch, hear, see and feel information, they can learn almost everything.
14. The impression children get when they are young, even if it is small and almost imperceptible, will have a very significant and lasting impact.
15, to develop children's talents, what matters is not how smart your children are, but how smart they are.
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