With a baby, unexpectedly, your personal time is hollowed out, which means that your time in the workplace is severely compressed. What is life like without children? On weekdays and weekends, you can go to the theatre and visit art exhibitions with your friends; Have afternoon tea with girlfriends, go shopping and sweep goods; Watching movies and having candlelight dinner with lovers. After having children, there is no time to relax on weekdays and weekends.

After work, you will run home, clean up a house that seems to have been ransacked by thieves, prepare dinner, and have high-quality parent-child company after dinner. One night, a child can call his mother a hundred times: "Mom, I can't find my XX toy. Please help me. " "Mom, you play hide-and-seek with me." "Mom, let me tell you, there is a child in our kindergarten today ..."

All night, your energy is spent on these trivial babysitting and housework. Do you want to sleep in at the weekend? It's impossible. The child will wake up your face like a long-winded Tang priest and read "Mom, get up, I'm hungry" in your ear. "Mom, play with me." "Mom" resisted the madness of getting up and began to play for a day. You can never imagine how energetic a child is.

When you are so tired that you just want to collapse in bed, she can run around for a long time. If I have to work overtime or my husband has to work overtime on weekends, and I can only take care of the baby alone, this person must be gnashing his teeth, because we always take care of the baby together on weekends, right, just can't see another person enjoying the rest of his life there secretly.

Having children means that your time in the workplace is severely compressed. Many women who have never had children are Bai Gujing in the workplace. 996 is not only a patent for male farmers, but also the norm for childless women in many industries. For example, my city is a port city for foreign trade export, and a large proportion of women are engaged in foreign trade logistics related industries.

Because these industries need to connect with customers in European and American markets, the time difference and huge workload make 996 almost sparse and common. However, after having children, you will find that you can't engage in the previous 996 jobs, except those with the selfless help of your mother-in-law. You will find that many mothers who have given birth to children have started to change careers, hoping that flexible working system can meet their needs for career and family at the same time.