It's hard.

Especially in today's society, in order for a woman to be a full-time wife, not only a man must have absolute goodwill and goodwill, but also sufficient economic strength to support it.

There are two more difficult points.

I remembered a friend who told me about her troubles. She is a full-time wife.

She said that married life was far more dull than she had expected, and her husband's enthusiasm for her gradually faded after the honeymoon. Although prepared, my heart is inevitably lost. I have to comfort myself that marriage is like boiled water, and it will not overflow if it keeps boiling.

She obeyed her husband's request. After marriage, she quit her job and stayed at home as a full-time wife. Husband goes out early and comes back late, and preparing dinner has become all the fun of her life. Buy food and cook until my husband comes home.

However, there are more and more days when husbands don't go home for dinner. Busy business, company dinners, friends gatherings and other activities always revolve around him. She was even afraid of getting a call from him before dinner, so she could only eat after hanging up the phone.

What makes her even more unacceptable is that she finally wants her husband to go home. He was either full of alcohol or exhausted and fell asleep in bed after taking a shower.

Lying beside him, she couldn't sleep. Although her husband is lying beside her, she is like a person, even without a speaker. Several times, she sobbed sadly to attract her husband's attention, but he still fell asleep.

After a few months, she decided to go out to work. It's a little difficult to feel so lonely around a man. Think about her asking him, "If your wife wants to be a full-time wife after marriage, will you dislike her not going out to earn money?"

She still remembers his answer: "Of course not, I will let her stay at home and be a princess. Men earn money for women. The princess doesn't have to go out to earn money, just count the money brought back by the prince at home. "

I still remember that she and her sisters were amused and moved by this answer. Ironically, this question and answer is now their biggest trouble.

When she and her husband put forward the idea of going to work, her husband immediately refused. Seeing her unhappy appearance, her husband smiled and said, "Wife, you are so beautiful that I dare not let you go out to work." You only belong to me, and only I can see you! "Hearing her husband's words, she was in distress situation.

The job search has come to an end, but she still hopes to find an outlet in all kinds of helplessness. Finally, at my mother's suggestion, I decided to have a child. With the baby's company, this full-time wife's life has a direction and her feelings with her husband are more stable.

But she never imagined that even her husband rejected the idea. He said he wasn't ready and didn't have the mentality of being a father.

She is speechless. A kind of wordless loneliness and depression fills my heart, and I don't know when it will end.

Therefore, a stay-at-home wife is a "high-risk occupation", which looks relaxed, but bears unimaginable pressure and depression.

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