I decided to quit my job after I got pregnant.
Many mothers quit when they think they are pregnant? In fact, this answer is not necessarily. My husband and I decided to have a baby and got pregnant the next month. Later, I happened to see some introductions, saying that the first three years of children are very important, and it is best to have a mother to grow up with. In particular, it has a profound impact on children's acquired personality, intellectual development and living habits. Moreover, it is also a bright period for children from the fetal period to the kindergarten, which is the period with the closest physical and mental contact with their mothers and the greatest dependence on their mothers, and then the children will gradually become independent. So after considering the family income, parents' physical condition, working environment and other factors, I decided to resign after discussing with my husband. Be a "stay-at-home mom" from pregnancy.
Arrange yourself and your baby's life during pregnancy and enrich their lives.
After resigning, I always have an idea to remind myself that I want to grow up with my baby and raise and educate my baby with complete knowledge. The first step is to make a plan for yourself: learn to cook and match yourself with nutritious pregnancy recipes; Make a schedule of work and rest; Learn prenatal education related knowledge, do prenatal education from pregnancy and do early education after birth; Timely physical examination; Sign up for a yoga class during pregnancy.
What must be done at all stages of pregnancy is irregular, so the timetable is constantly changing and improving. The morning sickness was serious in the first four months of pregnancy, and then it suddenly got better. The appetite is good, the baby has entered a stable period, and gradually arranged more things for himself.
I walk outdoors every day. Later, I walked and chatted with several pregnant mothers in the community and made many new friends. They all said I was "too planned". But that's my habit. I like to do things smoothly, then step by step, and finally achieve the desired results.
The chaotic life after the baby was born.
13 On May 22nd, my baby was born. After leaving the hospital, my mother and mother-in-law took care of me and my baby for half a month. They are all far from home. After half a month, I let them go back. I feel like fighting every day for the rest of my life. My baby eats and sleeps for a while. What makes me more gratified is that the baby doesn't like to cry. Even if it stinks and makes me uncomfortable, it's a few times. As long as I touch him with my hand, he will know that his mother is helping him and let me push him around, but the baby is too soft. At first, he was afraid to do it. He is always helpless and stinks several times. Then wash, change, wipe and clean up the mess. I'm exhausted after this trip. After a while, I have to do it again. I make do with a few mouthfuls every day when I cook, and it won't be long before my breast milk is pitiful.
Later, I experienced jaundice, eczema and fever with my baby. Fortunately, I didn't read less books during pregnancy and consulted an experienced friend, which was very easy to deal with. Soon I became proficient in these baby care processes and became a decent mother.
Learn and grow with your baby.
From the baby's 2 months old, I will do touching exercises for the baby every day, and practice arm strength, leg strength and neck lift by lying flat and raising my head. Play prenatal music and talk to the baby every day for 3 months. The complementary food time starts from 5 months, starting from the simplest vegetable paste rice flour, to all kinds of porridge, and then to beautiful and nutritious baby meals. Even if the baby is 2 years old and can basically eat the same food as adults, I will try my best to make it specially for the baby.
In fact, it is more important to learn and grow with your baby. Never climb, sit, stand or walk; Grasp, hug, pinch and practice all kinds of big tricks; From listening to prenatal music, learning to speak and learning to read, I learned it while playing games with my baby. The baby is also very studious. His sparkling eyes are always staring at everything I teach him, and he can quickly learn everything from imitation to independence. Of course, the baby must also be naughty and stubborn. From shouting at the beginning to rational treatment, I spent a lot of time and countless times practicing. Those great parenting methods are scientific but really difficult.
My pride
Now, what makes me happy is that all the efforts are worthwhile. Although the baby is young, it has shown obvious personality and intelligence. Praise from others is second, and it is my greatest pride to see my baby grow up happily and healthily. Not only did he quit his job and concentrate on taking care at home, but he also played a decisive role in the early prenatal education of his baby.
My baby speaks early. Many parents say that boys' language ability develops later than girls'. But my baby is naturally sensitive to language. 1 year-old, can understand everyday language. If you ask him about everything in his family, such as fans, TV, father, mother and toys, he can quickly show me. By the time he was 2 years old, he had mastered a lot of vocabulary, pronounced clearly and could say complex sentences that were out of proportion to his age.
2, the baby is very curious, which often makes me angry and helpless. After climbing, I was curious about everything in front of me, crawling around looking for, touching, eating and smashing myself, and feeling new things in some ways. I can only be vigilant when I am sad and happy to ensure the safety of my baby's "study". After talking, I will ask everything around me, "What is this? Why? " Sometimes I feel that my knowledge is not enough!
3. From the age of one, my husband and I insisted on reading picture books with our baby, and formed the habit of loving books and reading. It is not important to be illiterate, but to be able to use your imagination. When a baby sees a picture, he can always mumble a "wonderful" story. Now kindergarten teachers all praise him as one with the strongest reading ability and the richest imagination.
4. I like numbers. A game between my baby and me is to do arithmetic problems with the number of things or numbers I can see everywhere on the road. Babies are naturally sensitive to numbers, and I plan to train them into science students in the future. Haha, isn't it a little early?
5, the baby is active, after all, it is a boy, but he prefers quiet time for himself. I don't need my company at this time, and my company is "disturbing" at this time. He studies puzzles, builds blocks, assembles new toys, reads a new picture book and listens to his favorite music. He showed great concentration and patience. They all say that "a serious man is the most handsome", and I have been fascinated by him.
6. The baby is a small leader. I like the tasks assigned by kindergarten teachers, with strong sense of responsibility, strong understanding and strong ability to do things. He can often lead children to complete tasks, and he is also more enthusiastic about helping other children. This independent personality must be of great benefit to him.
As the saying goes, "Pharaoh sells melons", the advantages of my baby are not limited to these. He is very enthusiastic about people and respects his elders ... Now think about the key years when he gave up his job to accompany his children. The purpose of doing a good job in prenatal education is not to cultivate prodigies, but to let children have a better intellectual foundation, study easily and live happily. Now it seems that my efforts are worthwhile!
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